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I can't get angry at the people I care about, is there something wrong with me?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 19, 2017
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How easily you get angry and at who depends on many factors. One is your personality, which just is who you are now (can change over time though). Then there's how you've been taught to express feelings, for example, or how people have responded to your anger before. Genetics and life experiences - understandable causes! If you feel like you bottle up anger, or the lack of anger bothers you for some other reason, it might be a good to talk about it with someone.
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Profile: PennyLane13
PennyLane13 on May 26, 2017
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Not getting angry at the people you care about shows that you have patience, and forgiveness and those are both two very good values to have. While it is always good to be kind and forgiving to everyone, we sometimes let people that are near and dear to us get away with more than we would others. It's good that you have this even temperament with people that you care about but it's also important to not let your kindness get taken advantage of. But overall it is a awesome that you are able to control anger and that is a good thing.
Profile: GentleDrizzle
GentleDrizzle on Jun 7, 2017
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No! Its beautiful that you do not hold grudges. It shows selflessness and maturity. However, never allow yourself to be degraded by another. Set yourself as a priority. Always.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 19, 2017
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There is nothing wrong with you. You are just a very caring person and you just dont get mad easily, which in some cases is a good thing!
Profile: damselinthisdress
damselinthisdress on Jul 24, 2017
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Absolutely not. It is a very healthy sign that you can't get angry at people you care about. It means that your relationships are not causing you any aggression, and that is very good...as long as it is mutual. Anger, vengeance, jealousy - these are signs of aggression and aggression is something that hurts the bearer more than the one it is directed to. So, you should be happy that you don't feel any of these towards your loved ones because that is the sign of a wholesome and fulfilling relationship. But, I should also mention that you should not be totally blind to their activities...if you see anything in the relationship that crosses a line, I believe you should speak up against it so that you can deal with it in a healthy manner.
Profile: avanef
avanef on Aug 30, 2017
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Not at all. It just means they mean a great deal to you and you don't have the anger in you to make things worse for your relationship. But, understand just because you have a good enough relationship with them doesn't mean if they do make you mad you can't be vocal about it. In some situations, it actually is good to be open and honest about the bad things too.
Profile: softFlute92
softFlute92 on Sep 25, 2017
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There is nothing wrong with not being angry for as long as when something bothers you, you speak up and make them aware than keeping it inside.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 28, 2017
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There is nothing wrong in this. It just means that you don't want to hurt them in any way, because, once angry, you might end up saying something you regret. Also, it may happen that you say something right, but, you don't want the person to berate themselves, so you further avoid it.
Profile: Imjustabundleofjoy
Imjustabundleofjoy on Nov 16, 2017
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No, its right for people to not want to be upset at the people they care about. You always want to love those people and so you should, unless they do something that hurts you in any way.
Profile: 0Beavercorn0
0Beavercorn0 on Nov 18, 2017
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with you for not getting angry at people you care about. Perhaps you simply love them too much and can't bear the thought of losing them. Maybe your brain can't help thinking up all kinds of bad or upsetting scenarios that could occur if you get in a fight with one of those you care for. Whatever it is, there's nothing "wrong" with you-many people feel this way.
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