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I can't get angry at the people I care about, is there something wrong with me?

Profile: HelpWisely
HelpWisely on Dec 8, 2016
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Not at all. The very fact that you care about them means you love them deeply enough not to get angry at them about anything. It shows you have a lot of patience, compassion and patience. Those are really good qualities. It is great not only to not get angry at people you care about but even try not to get angry at people you do not care about or anybody at all.
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Profile: silverSnowflake65
silverSnowflake65 on Jan 19, 2017
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Not necessarily. If these people take advantage of your kind nature then you need to stand your ground if you're being disrespected. It's not about getting angry, it's about telling someone they've upset you and making them understand why.
Profile: fightingthestorm96
fightingthestorm96 on Feb 23, 2017
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There is nothing wrong with you. It is very common to have a hard time getting angry at people who care about you. In my experience, it can be hard to deal with because sometimes they may do something that makes you feel angry or frustrated, but you can't voice those concerns. I have this experience with my roommate a lot, especially if she does something that makes me upset. Sometimes it helps me to write out how I am feeling and discuss it with someone, and if afterwards I feel like I need to talk to my roommate about it, I can.
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There is nothing wrong about being angry. In fact, it's very unhealthy for you (and the people you care about) when you don't vent out your frustration! You'll begin thinking very negatively, and that will put a strain on your relationships. Find out what's causing your anger, and talk to the people you care about on it. The goal is to arrive at a conclusion where you're both happy. :)
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 17, 2017
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Of course not. When you love someone, you accept all their shortcomings and already have an idea of what they are like and how they behave. In this case the anger is really directed towards the situation you are thrown into and not the people involved, because it is impossible to be angry with someone because of doing something that was of their nature.
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Some people default to anger. others to sadness. So, nothing "wrong" or abnormal about that. If you find any catabolic emotion about the actions of the people you care about, you could ask yourself, "What do I want to change about their behavior and what need of mine does it point to? And what need of theirs does their behavior point to?" Thus starting to create a connected experience of life and finding a solution.
Profile: AndriaJaii
AndriaJaii on Apr 17, 2017
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Anger is a natural human emotion. Emotions are not right or wrong. Its how you express them that makes it right or wrong. Emotions are great teachers. They teach use about what we like and what we don't. It may be difficult to be angry as those we love because secondary emotions to anger such as namely guilt may also come up. We may feel guilty for being angry at those we love. To allow yourself to feel the emotion anger over what a close relative may have said or done can teach you what you like or dislike. It can also teach you how to deal effectively.
Profile: BeYOUtiul
BeYOUtiul on Apr 30, 2017
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No, of course not! That is actually an amazing quality, and you should be proud to have it! That just means that you will probably be able to have better friends, and maintain better relationships. Do not ever think there is something wrong with you - because you are amazing
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 4, 2017
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There is nothing wrong with you. You are just afraid that your words might hurt them and they will abandon you. You can try telling them what you think about their behavior in a proper way. Do not be afraid to get angry. Sometimes getting angry is quite healthy in relationship which shows u care about them
Profile: Missionmagic101
Missionmagic101 on May 14, 2017
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Absolutely.not. although is not the best thing in the world to be angry at the people you love, it is sometimes inevitable to feel like that. Maybe it's because your under a lot of stress, or perhaps you can't handle your feelings properly at that moment. But plesse don't feel like anything's wrong with you. It happens. What you do next is what defines you. Do you stay mad or realize what you did and apologize? Better days will come and you will learn how to deal with your emotions.
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