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How to be good to yourself and to others?

Profile: PatientOwl
PatientOwl on Jul 16, 2016
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I always treat others how I, myself would want to be treated. I try to put myself in other people's shoes and try to refrain from judgement.
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Profile: FoodForTheSoul
FoodForTheSoul on Jul 21, 2016
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Being good to yourself and others is a lifestyle that you have to accommodate. Complete and utter honesty with yourself and your intentions is a perfect way start to this journey.
Profile: ImmaDog
ImmaDog on Jul 22, 2016
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Talk to yourself the way your true friends talk to you. See the good things in yourself and other people. Don't judge them by their looks but on how they speak and act.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 27, 2016
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believe in yourself ! respect other listen to their point of opinion , take them in consideration but do what best suits you . smile often. :)
Profile: SquishyRaspberries
SquishyRaspberries on Jul 28, 2016
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I think one can cause the other. It's easier to be good to other people when you're just starting out. Be honest with people, but be cautious with thoughts that may offend others. Do things for others that you would like people to do for you, whether that's helping them with a difficult task, talking to them about their problems, or just making them laugh. It doesn't have to be huge gestures but every little bit counts. Eventually, the good you do for other people will reflect on the good you do for yourself. You will find that you are more confident and accepting of yourself as you learn to accept and appreciate others.
Profile: ItsAlyssa
ItsAlyssa on Jul 28, 2016
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Well be kind and love yourself and start by just saying nice things about yourself and other and smile feel confident 😊
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 6, 2016
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Respect, honesty, and communication are a great foundation for any kind of relationship, whether it be with yourself or others. Always really listen to yourself, or others, acknowledge what you really need or what others are literally saying. Be kind to yourself and to others, people make mistakes and most people are at least well-intentioned. Similarly, give yourself a break: it's okay to Just Stop now and then and relax without pressuring yourself. Know when to give up with other people: persistence shows a lack of respect and listening skills. Treat yourself and others: go on a walk, a nice restaurant, do something you really enjoy just for the sake of it.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 6, 2016
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Treat yourself ocassionaly, do things you love to do. Share moments and memories with you friends and family, and treat people how you would want to be treated.
Profile: Eyesoh
Eyesoh on Aug 7, 2016
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I think a way to be good to yourself is to list a few positive traits that you have and list things you are grateful for. Being good to others can be as easy as a friendly smile or forgiving someone for something that may have offended or hurt you and sending them positive wishes in their life.
Profile: delightfulDay42
delightfulDay42 on Aug 10, 2016
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Physically: Eat healthy, get job done moderately, daily exercise and sleep well. Mentally: Remain good mood, think positively and be kind.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 11, 2016
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Treat yourself and others the way you would treat someone you greatly admire. Imagine if you were to run into someone in great distress. Treat yourself and others the way you would treat them.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 12, 2016
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Respect yourself love yourself be proud of yourself don't underestimate yourself & before you offer help & happiness to anyone make sure you do that to yourself first & always give sometime to your own where you sit alone in peace and let go of whatever in your mind
Profile: TruthSinger
TruthSinger on Aug 17, 2016
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Embrace those times when you are trying something new and hit the point where you are on new ground, a huge part of you is terrified, but part of you is free of the muck you've always swum in. Realize it's only a PART of you that is scared, and that you could not conceive of something if you are not capable of manifesting it. Learn what you need to and take the action steps necessary. Do not wallow in the facts and fears of your condition (health, money, parents, children, whatever) instead put your time and energy into becoming the best you possible. Imagine what it would look like to BE that person who this is not a problem for. to Be that person who has succeeded in overcoming this condition, and then ask yourself, what does that person do differently than I do? Embrace that, put on that skin...walk in it. KNOW that you have just taken a step towards a new belief system about yourself and that part of you will fight like mad to stay the same, no matter how much you do not want that, but part of you is already moving forward to the new normal. Embrace that.
Profile: MidnightSky7
MidnightSky7 on Aug 26, 2016
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To be good to yourself can be difficult sometimes. You need to really see into yourself. You need to see all the good things that you do. The whole beauty of yourself. The differences you make. To be good to others, do little things. They can mean a lot to someone. Ask how they're doing, compliment them. Etc.
Profile: Lovelypink
Lovelypink on Aug 26, 2016
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Love yourself,accept yourself and be kind to yourself You cannot love,accept and be kind to others if you dont do it for yourself
Profile: GracefulFriend75
GracefulFriend75 on Aug 28, 2016
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Just treat everyone around you with respect and dignity. Be happy and those around you will follow!!
Profile: SweetNori
SweetNori on Aug 31, 2016
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Be kind, be understanding, remember there is always more than one perspective. I remind myself all the time that what is good for me is not always so for others. And remember that when others give their opinions and advice too. Eat well most of the time, find a way to exercise you like and maybe try some mediation and mindfulness if that's your thing.
Profile: FrenchThea
FrenchThea on Sep 1, 2016
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Do small good deeds. Like ; if there is someone old attempting to cross a road, watch discreetly if they need help : if there is some help you can give, however little, give it.
Profile: LovingListener96
LovingListener96 on Sep 2, 2016
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To be good to yourself and others starts with self care, because if you can't met your own basic need you can't met the basic needs that a healthy relationship with others requires. A good way to begin self care is to list all your basic needs physical and emotional ones then rate how well you are taking care of your self in those areas. Ones you are lacking in schedule time to take care of those and create goals. Once you feel that you are consistently taking care of yourself you can begin to manage other relationships by doing positive things for others without compromising your own self care.
Profile: MrNurse
MrNurse on Sep 3, 2016
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Treat everyone as if they were a family member. The way you treat people reflects in yourself. Even if you don't believe in karma, it can be wonderful for yourself and others if you act like you do. Do unto others as you would have done to yourself.
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