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How do I stop myself from falling in love?

Profile: oliverjayy
oliverjayy on Dec 16, 2015
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Love is something that you can stop yourself from falling into :( I've been in the same boat where I've kept falling in love with people that entered into my life and left me extremely broken, and that's the thing about love. It's not always the amazing, magical thing that we see in movies. Sometimes it enters your life, destroys everything, and leaves without a trace. However, if you ever want to consider stopping yourself from falling in love, you should try to distract yourself by doing other things that can keep you busy and your mind off of love. It's what I do, and it works...most of the time :P
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Profile: SnowQueen62
SnowQueen62 on Dec 16, 2015
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You can't stop yourself from falling in love mentally, physically, or scientifically. It's a natural occurance in our body that releases chemicals when we see that one person. On the other hand, falling in love can be hard at times to let go of it we can't have that person. But this is just apart of life
Profile: BrendyCares
BrendyCares on Dec 18, 2015
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It is really hard for me, if I am dating a guy. I met a guy off the net and the first hug started me falling in love. I believe love happens.
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Anonymous on Dec 19, 2015
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I'm guessing you have a good reason to stop yourself falling in love ( for example the person doesn't return you feelings or you are already in a relationship ) . The best way to stop your feelings growing stronger is almost certainly trying to stay away from / avoid that persons company as much as possible . Also , finding something else like a new hobby ( maybe some kind of sport ) or distraction is usually effective . Spending more time with friends and family can also help you not to feel lonely if you miss this person and it definitely keeps you busy . Concentrating on work or school can be a good idea , as well as generally keeping your mind off that person as much as possible by engaging yourself with any other activities you find absorbing and distracting .
Profile: readman
readman on Dec 19, 2015
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You can repeat yourself over and over that no matter how happy, how good, how special and unique everything is, eventually it will disappear, all of it will be swallow up by routine, so -why bother at all?- and if it does work, there is the possibility that you will suffer so very much. Of course you will never feel pain but you will not feel LOVE either, love songs are going to sound weird, hugs will feel like someone is crushing your ribs. So...are you sure about your choice? are you really sure that you prefer the safety of knowing that you heart can’t be broken?
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 20, 2015
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I think falling in love can mean many things. It can mean developing feelings for someone we know or either it can mean to get into a relationship with someone. I don't think it is possible to stop ourselves from feeling something or having feelings. They are a natural process and we have not much control on when they come. But, we can chooses how we act on those feelings and that is what really matters.
Profile: shwern
shwern on Dec 23, 2015
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I would ask myself what I get out of falling in love, and what I would lose. Then I would ask myself if it's worth the cost.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 23, 2015
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Let yourself fall. Falling in love is a beautiful part of nature. Just make sure you don't land because if you fall, eventually you'll have to land.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 23, 2015
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How do I stop myself from falling in love? How can I stop? It seems like you ask me to stop breathing. Yes,I can hold my breath but not for too long. After I held my breath my lungs are asking for more air, making me breath harder, just like falling in love if we stop ourselves from falling the more prone we are into falling hardly inlove.You, I and everyone of us can't help falling in love. We just need to let ourselves fall, feel the feeling of being in love after that we can learn to move on, to let go.
Profile: iouty
iouty on Dec 23, 2015
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You can stop yourself from falling in love the same way you can stop your heart from beating. It will happen out of no where and it will take your heart by storm.
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