How can I stop thinking about making mistakes all the time?
Anonymous
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Jul 26, 2016
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Plan to succeed until it becomes a natural habit that is innate in your character. You should also focus on what you've learnt from the mistake and the mistakes that you haven't made in the past.
Anonymous
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Nov 8, 2016
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Keeping yourself busy is the key. When you are focusing on something really hard. Your mind doesn't have the time to worry.
scotty4947
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Jan 9, 2017
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Come to the terms that making mistakes is a good thing. It is what makes you human, and the experience will help you learn and grow! If I make the mistake of not tying my shoe properly then trip and fall while walking, I will learn to always check and be sure my laces are fastened tightly! It's okay to make mistakes and they're great ways to learn things!
Arakhthanda
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Oct 23, 2017
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First, think of life as a "working progress" rather than an "end goal". The problem with so many people fearing to make mistakes is that they fear that it will ruin their own self-image, which is permanently who they are and cannot be changed (entity mindset). If you switch over to see your self-image as something that change over time (growth mindset), then you will have no fear of making mistakes.
SerenaEmbrace
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Jun 19, 2018
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The acknowledgement that we are all human beings and we learn and grow by making mistakes. Mistakes are part of life.
adoredComfort43
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Jul 31, 2018
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Making mistakes is not such a bad thing. It's important to not be overly critical of yourself and realize that making mistakes is a part of growth. If you made 0 mistakes in your life, you would still be at the same place you were in when you were born. Do you want that? Give yourself permission to fail so that you can achieve the success you want.
MrMistoffelees
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Apr 8, 2019
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Self doubt is a hard thing that all people experience from time to time. Making mistakes is something everybody fears, and it's totally normal. However, being able to stop obsessing over past or future mistakes can be difficult. The first step in feeling secure about making mistakes is understanding that mistakes are what make you, you! You learn and grow from them and they are totally necessary. Being secure in yourself and your unique skill set will allow you to see that you are an important part of an important machine. Practicing telling yourself and proving to yourself that you are important will make it much easier to accept that you will sometimes mess things up. Making mistakes will improve your overall quality, so don't be afraid to make them!
Anaiviv01
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Feb 3, 2020
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We often have a shameful approach to mistakes, mostly based on social stigma and our fear not to be accepted. We learn to play by the rules since we're kids and this "should" assure us we're accepted and embraced. Although this, I believe mistakes are ideas that didn't succeed — but they're still a proof there was an idea or an attempt to do something. Think of a child: they make so many mistakes before learning how to play a game or even how to stand on their feet. James Joyce said "mistakes are the portals of discovery", because through them we train ourselves not to give up on life.
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