Why am I gay? I hate myself.

because you like someone of a certain gender doesnt mean you have to hate yourself, im asexual, i dont like it but i just am and ive accepted that im like this for a reason. some may feel unaccepted but the truth is, what you feel comfortable with shouldnt be anyone elses choice but your own, and being gay isnt a choice, it is who you and and you should embrace it :)

Being gay is something you are born with. You shouldn't hate yourself because of this, just because you love someone of the same gender as you doesn't make you a bad person. Love is love. Don't hate yourself over something you can not change.

Because life picked you in the fabulous roulette. If you hate yourself, go see a psychologist. If it's because you're gay, get some friends who can and will talk about it from first hand experience.

The reason behind homosexuality is something scientists haven't figured out yet. However, it's highly possible that there's epigenetics behind it. Either way, homosexuality is natural - it occurs in hundreds of spieces. There's no reason to hate yourself for being gay. Being gay simply means being sexually attracted to people of the same sex. It doesn't affect any other area of your life. While there are people who are strongly homophobic (against gay people), they're irrational. The gay community is just like the straight community. There are bad people in it and there are good people in it. But none of them is bad just because he or she is gay. You have no reason to hate yourself for being gay. I know it's hard to accept something like that and this is not some magical text that will get you to love yourself right after reading it. But I want you to know that it will get better. There will always be homophobic people, but once you realize that homosexuality is not bad you'll hate yourself less and less and less. You're amazing human being. Don't forget that. You have an amazing potential and homosexuality won't erase your potential.

There's no particular reason, outside of possibly genetics. There's no way to change our inherent sexual orientation, which I guess might be something you wish weren't true, if you hate this part of you. I don't have anything in that vein I could comfort you with; I just hope that one day you'll make your peace with being gay and accept who you, for your sake. Please don't listen to any who may judge you or harass you for this. You're you. Being gay doesn't have to define you. If you can't accept being gay yet, then I hope you'll at least embrace your other traits. I wish you the best.

Being gay isn't a choice. It's like asking "Why is my hair red?" You can try to cover it up, but no matter what, you are who you are. Why do you hate yourself? Being gay isn't bad! It's who you love! If your family and friends don't support you, remember this quote, "I can choose my friends, I can choose my family, and if they don't accept me they'll have me." -boyinaband Love yourself! And be gay! Because gay is cool!

There's nothing wrong with it, honey. Some people are just born that way, as you may be born a blond or a ginger or whatever. Once you accept this as a normal thing about yourself, you'll start loving youself again :) I really hope this helped

First of all, you should never hate yourself. Hating yourself never gets you anywhere. You should try and have a positive attitude all of the time. More importantly, it doesn't matter why you're gay. It could be any number of reasons. What's important is what you do with that information. Love who you are and be the best version of you that you can be.

There is no reason why you're gay, people are just born with it. I understand that it can be really difficult to come to terms with your own sexuality. But it's not your fault that you are the way you are, you did nothing wrong, some people are just born gay. I really hope you can learn to accept that part of yourself and become happy :) Take care!