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(This one is for asexuals.) Why don't I feel sexually attracted to anyone? Am I broken?

Profile: Floral
Floral on Feb 10, 2015
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Not feeling sexual attraction towards people is completely normal! Just as feeling sexual attraction is normal too. Asexuals don't feel sexual attraction towards people at all, but it can change throughout a persons life. It could also be due to depression or other issues. So if it's something that bothers you or you want to change, you can always speak to your doctor about it.
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Profile: Herequeerandcheering
Herequeerandcheering on Nov 24, 2015
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That's just who you are. Nothing is wrong with you. It's normal to feel this way. Your not alone. You are not broken.
Profile: SnoOnTheBluff
SnoOnTheBluff on Oct 24, 2016
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You are not broken! You are a wonderful whole person who experience life differently! This is not bad! In fact I have found that being asexual leaves me time to think of lots of other things.
Profile: marquesBloodbrother
marquesBloodbrother on May 8, 2017
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No! Of course not! It is normal for people to be asexual. I don't know what makes us asexual, but it's probably the same reason some people are gay and others aren't.
Profile: naturalBlossom98
naturalBlossom98 on Apr 30, 2018
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You are not broken. You are a human being who is attracted to other things, like inner beauty, physical attraction, emotional attractions and other amazing things about people. A lot of people don’t experience sexual attraction and this is a common occurrence.
Profile: Fairy
Fairy on Aug 25, 2015
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Not at all. Nobody is broken, and not experiencing sexual attraction is certainly normal. Some might say common, in fact :) There's a large asexual community out there that only feel romantic attraction towards people IF THAT! There may be no specific reason why you're not sexually attracted to anyone- that's like asking why your hair isn't naturally blue or why cats aren't born with wooly hats. It's natural and you should embrace it and certainly not be ashamed of it ^.^
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 6, 2017
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No of course not, just like some people prefer men or women or both etc, some just don't and it's ok
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 19, 2017
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Not even a little broken. It's so easy to feel like you can be, though! I really get where you're coming from. Being attracted to people is honestly hard to explain. It might have some biological factors, if you still want to look it up. But at the end of the day, you are who you are, just like bisexuals are bi, transgenders are trans, and queers are queer. It's one of the little-lovely things that makes you YOU
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 21, 2017
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You're not broken! You belong to a beautiful community of asexual people and we all accept you for who you are!
Profile: EveMarshal
EveMarshal on Feb 14, 2017
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Nope! you're not broken, maybe you're not type of a person that's usually into it, unless you found the right one that suits to your taste and preferences,
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