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Sexual attraction: What's the difference between romantic attraction and sexual attraction?

Profile: SpencerT
SpencerT on Apr 8, 2015
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Romantic attraction is a social construct, sexual attraction is an instinct that ensures the continuation of the human race. One might be romantically attracted to the idea of a financially secure and generous person, even if sexual attraction is not there. One might be sexually attracted to somebody, generally due to individual physical attributes considered attractive, regardless of any romantic aspects. Though different, they amount to fundamentally similar outcome: the human instinct to survive and and have healthy offspring.
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Profile: thewiseowl
thewiseowl on Aug 1, 2015
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Romantic Attraction is attraction towards a person's EVERYTHING. Their flaws, their negative and positive attributes, their personality(may it be good, bad or both) THEIR EVERYTHING. You want their attention and time. Sexual Attraction is attraction towards a person's body. The thing you usually want from them is sexual activities and it ends there.
Profile: KindSunflower17
KindSunflower17 on Aug 12, 2015
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I believe that when you are romantically attracted by someone, you really care for that person, you want to know them better and to try to understand their feelings. You want to commit to that person, to be with them in happiness and in sadness also, you feel the need to mean something to them, to cherish and be cherished. While sexual attraction means that you only find this person physically attractive, you are willing to have a sexual relation with them, but nothing more.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 31, 2016
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In my personal experience, romantic attraction has meant a strong feeling of love, connection, and a longing to grow together. A desire for emotional intimacy. Sexual attraction for me is excitement, curiosity, a fun energy, freedom. I feel romantic attraction when I witness kindness, compassion, and humanity in a person. I feel sexually attracted when I witness that person feeling confident, having fun, or shining in their own element.
Profile: LittleMissListen
LittleMissListen on Jun 25, 2015
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Simply put, sexual attraction is the desire to have sex with a someone; it can be an immediate desire upon seeing them or a more gradual one that develops over time, but in the end the base desire is for sex with that person. Those feelings might be described with words like 'fiery', 'burning', etc. Romantic attraction is a desire for whatever you perceive is a romantic relationship with a specific person. It can also be immediate or more gradual. These feelings may be referred to as the 'warm fuzzies', or similar ideas to do with warmth, protectiveness, and closeness.
Profile: Dillion
Dillion on Aug 2, 2015
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A romantic attraction is feelings of long term relationships that want to spend time together and share the truth about their relationship. A sexual attraction, means that you find the person attractive, and very appealing to have a sexual relationship. Sexual relationships tend to not become public as often as romantic relationships do. Also another big difference, is in romantic, you want to spend more time with each other rather then a sexual relationship one night stand.
Profile: AnnaLs
AnnaLs on Aug 13, 2015
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Romantic attraction means you love everything about the signifiant other, from personality to looks. Sexual attraction means you only love what you see with your eyes or the sexual plesure they might offer you.
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Anonymous on Jun 27, 2015
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With romantic attraction, you care what the person thinks about you even if you have no hope of getting together with them.
Profile: Jenna
Jenna on Jul 25, 2015
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Romantic Attraction: Attraction to have what is considered to be a romantic relationship. Things such as dates would be desired of people you feel romantically towards. Sexual Attraction: Attraction with the desire to have sex with another. This is usually based on physical attraction.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 19, 2015
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Romantic attraction can seem more innocent, it's more about wanting to spend time with someone or getting to know them better. Sexual attraction is pure lust, and without the feelings of romantic attraction.
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