I've just come to terms with being transgender. How do I come out to my girlfriend of many years?

Well, you could first talk to her about a transgender issue in the news, and then use that as a segway to talk to her about you being trans. I'd also say that this will be difficult to do, and that you should only come out when you're comfortable doing so, so don't feel rushed. I personally changed my pronouns on facebook, and came out to my friends and family that way, as it's a conversation starter, so coming out via text or call is also a possibility, or just sending her a letter regarding this, if you feel more comfortable doing so. Anyways, good luck with whatever you decide to do!

It can vary from situation to situation. Love knows no boundaries and has no confines. Coming out is a huge decision and although it can be nerve wracking the sense of freedom and relief you get is so worth it. I would tell your girlfriend in a calm manner and ask her if she has any questions about it.

Calmly explain to her how you feel before just saying you want to change your gender. Sit down and thoroughly explain why you don't want to be in your body etc. If she loves you then she will understand.

Hi! Well done on posting your question, it can be difficult in asking these kinda questions. My best advice would be to be as honest as you can be. My own view of this would be if you are together in a relationship with someone and this comes out, you have to be honest. Not so much about being honest with the other person although this is important, but its very important to be honest with yourself. You cannot go through life living a lie to yourself. If your girlfriend loves you, then i cant see it being too much of an issue if she supports you no matter what. Id try by asking her "What would you do if i ever came out as TG to you" And maybe go from there and see her response. Please remember, you are never alone and there is always someone here for you to talk to. We are here 24 hours a day, 7 days a week and 365 days a year. You are always welcome to talk to us and we will always be listening. Hope you find the best outcome to your question soon. Take care and Good Luck! Lots of love! SammiieSmiles~xx

Take it step by step. Firstly sit her down on her own and explain to her that you're unhappy with who you were and you've now found the real you, whom wants her love and support.

Just tell her the truth. She may not like it, but you have to be truthful with not only yourself, but also the people you care about.

Sit down with her an talk about it. It will probably shock her, but if she really loves you she will accept it, even though it might take some time

It depends on the personal circumstances, many ask her view point on LGBT people. If she seems ok with it then when you have free time sit her down and go through how you are feeling at what you want to change about yourself and the pronouns you want to be if she isn't supportive end the convosation and let her come to the realisation of who you are she will realise soon and accept you. X

Just talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel and support each other. Good luck and take care! :)

Try to explain it to her in a comfortable setting for the both of you and let her know, make sure you don't feel stressed or that you have to come out any time soon. Do it in your own time too.