Is it okay to be confused around your sexuality?
TheGreyFixer
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Jan 11, 2016
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Yes, it's perfectly fine to be confused. Sexuality isn't clear-cut, and it's not always set in stone either, so it's easy to find yourself in a bit of a quandary. Just relax and do what you feel like doing. There's no need to put yourself in a box or stress yourself out unnecessarily thinking about it.
positiveWhisper24
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Mar 14, 2015
LGBTQ+ Issues Expert
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Of course! Human sexuality is complex, and often fluid, especially in women. It can change as you grow into it. Don't worry about it if you are confused.
Anonymous
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Feb 26, 2015
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Yes, it is definitely okay! Sexuality can be very confusing, and hard to figure out. It is best to take your time. You don't need to put a label on yourself if you are not comfortable doing so.
Greatlistener87
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Apr 26, 2016
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That is actually normal. Sexuality is a really complicated thing and it takes time and effort to discover. Take your time to go through this confusion as it is important not to rush into anything. This is because it will effect you for your future.
Rebecca
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Feb 24, 2015
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Of course it is! Sexuality can be very fluid, meaning it, along with your preferences, can change. For some people, one day they may prefer men, and the next, they prefer women. That is of course using binary terms. Someone could also one day prefer someone who doesn't identify with a gender. The point is, sexuality isn't a concrete thing. It is slightly different for every person, and has a slightly different meaning for every person. Some ideas may be more popular than others, but that doesn't mean it is right. There is no definite right or wrong answer. The trick is to find the best answer for you, and that might take some time.
Good luck
genuineSeal64
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Mar 8, 2015
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Yes! There's a mix of them you just have to find where you feel comfortable, then once your comfortable you can then define your sexuality :)
Anonymous
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May 20, 2015
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it is totally okay, because everyone sometimes think's they're gay .. lol just kidding but i'm serious, it's OKAY. Why wouldn't it? love has NO gender, i personally think we fall for a soul, but some people do indeed like boobas or anything else that i won't get banned for SORRY!!! but still, it doesnt matter because love is love...... dont blame yourself, enjoy the love you feel... wheter its a man, a woman, who cares?
kindheartedSun3
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Aug 1, 2015
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Yes, it is okay to be confuse. It's how you figure things out..
Emma16
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May 17, 2016
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Yes. I think in our culture there is this idea that you have to rush to figure it out and then come out, and it shouldn't be like that. Take your time, explore, live your life. In time, things will become more clear. If a label fits and you want to use it, great. If you don't want to identify with any label, that's great too. You love who you love and you're attracted to who you're attracted to and thats 100% okay. Just let it flow and be natural.
Aayla
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Jun 10, 2019
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Absolutely! Many people find themselves confused during the questioning phase. And it's totally ok. Take all the time you need, analyze your own feelings, emotions and desires, try to be as honest to yourself as you can. If you wish, look for support, either by the LGBT community or by anyone you trust. With time, you will understand yourself better! Wish you the best!
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