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I don't like sexual relationships at all. Is it wrong?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 23, 2018
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You are definitely not wrong for not liking sexual relationships! You might just be asexual, meaning you don't like sexual relationships. It could also mean that you just haven't hit that stage in puberty yet, if you're still young. But that's up to you to decide through experiences and what you feel deep down. The most important thing I want you to know is that it's not your fault. You're not wrong for feeling this way.
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Profile: gentleLily
gentleLily on Jun 11, 2018
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There is nothing wrong with not being interested in sexual relationships. A lot of people fall somewhere on the asexuality spectrum.
Profile: Sunset316
Sunset316 on Sep 17, 2018
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No, not at all. Some of us (including me) are really uncomfortable with the thought of our significant other or love interest touching us, especially if we're not ready for that kind of step. That doesn't mean that something is wrong with you. Nothing. There is nothing wrong with you. Being intimate at a sexual level requires the ultimate trust and confidence in someone. And of course, we can't entrust something like that to everyone and these things require time and patience. You can take things slow, however you want to, and your partner should be okay with that no matter what
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Anonymous on Sep 18, 2018
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No. It’s perfectlly fine to not pursue sexual relationships. This is called being asexual, and it is not feeling sexual attraction to anyone. It is very normal, and it’s not wrong. It’s part of a spectrum.
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Aayla on Jun 10, 2019
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Absolutely nothing wrong! It's ok if you're not into sex, the fact that it's not super common doesn't mean it's wrong. Asexuality is a perfectly valid orientation, and asexual people can live happy and fulfilling purely romantic relationships. The asexual community will be there to support you with any doubt or curiosity you might have, if you wish to reach out for people who feel the same as you!
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Anonymous on Sep 23, 2019
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That is not wrong. One of the identities in LGBTQ+ is known as asexual, and asexuals feel no sexual attraction and may be disgusted by the thought of sex. Perhaps if you are attracted to people sexually, but dislike it, you may be on the asexual scale. Or you just may not like being in a sexual relationship period, regardless of your attractions. There is nothing wrong with you at all, and this is perfectly normal. Many people feel like this- some are asexual, and some are not. Some are demisexual, and some are not. Some just dislike sexual relationships.
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Anonymous on Oct 27, 2020
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There is nothing wrong with you. Everyone is different so don't compare yourself to the "normal". Maybe you have not found someone that you are sexually interested in yet or maybe you do not find anyone sexually attractive ( and if that is the case then don't freak out it is okay for you to not be sexually attracted to someone). If you need anyone to listen to know also way know that there is someone here that will be happy to. Also, there is nothing wrong with not finding sexual relationships not attractive. Maybe, you don't like that the relationship only focus on that aspect instead of a friendship
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Anonymous on May 25, 2021
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Not at all, we all have our preferences when it comes to relationships. You can choose to be in a relationship that doesn't involve sex and you can tell your partner how you feel about it. It is not wrong to dislike sex, it is something natural and we can choose if we want it or not, no one should be forced in doing it if they don't feel comfortable with it. That would be rape, as long as you are happy and make sure that your partner understands that you do not want to involve sex in the relationship.
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