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I don't identify as either gender consistently. What does this mean?

Profile: amazingHeart17
amazingHeart17 on Nov 29, 2015
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Well there are actually a lot more genders other than just male and female. You could be genderfluid, non-binary, bigender, trigender, etc. You don't have to rush to put a label on yourself, but just know that there are plenty of people who identify the same as you do, and not defining with one particular gender is completely normal!
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 21, 2015
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Not identifying with a single gender is usually known as being gender fluid or non-binary. It can be scary to think about it, and it can be even scarier to talk to someone about it. Starting with someone you're close to can help. If you're worried about talking to somone who knows you so why not chat to a listener anonymously!
Profile: ashbradbury42
ashbradbury42 on Feb 22, 2016
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It means you are gender fluid. Your gender changes frequently. It's perfectly normal. There are plently of online resources for nonbinary people.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 23, 2016
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It means you might have a gender identity outside of the gender binary.
Profile: GentleShadows
GentleShadows on Mar 1, 2016
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You may be genderfluid, dear! And I know how that feels. Gender fluidity can be a little odd at first, but once you get used to it, it's easy to deal with. I, for example, have found a pattern in the fluctuations in my gender. Of course, you could also be some other form of non-binary too.
Profile: Mark5
Mark5 on Mar 7, 2016
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It could mean that you identify as genderqueer or genderfluid. Typically people who identify this way feel masculine on some days and feminine on others, or neither! Often they will prefer gender neutral pronouns or use the pronouns depending on how they identify that day. Perfectly okay to identify this way!
Profile: Probius
Probius on May 24, 2016
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It might mean that you are gender fluid. Some people's gender identity changes over time, and can be one thing one day, and something else on another day. This is okay, and says nothing bad about your character.
Profile: freshLove97
freshLove97 on Jun 13, 2016
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We all have a lot of different traits. No man is 100% manly, no woman is 100% feminine. This is normal.
Profile: Greatlistener87
Greatlistener87 on Jun 27, 2016
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You could be Bisexual or some other gender you can google to know more about different types of gender and what they mean to be sure.
Profile: Jason144
Jason144 on Jul 4, 2016
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It means a person is Agender, which means they don't identify as male or female or any other gender.
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