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How do I know if I am transgender?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 14, 2015
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If you think you are, then you probably are. Every transgender person has condition called dysphoria, a state of dissatisfaction / discomfort with their assigned sex / gender role. Also if you think you migh not be the gender you were assigned at birth transgender isn't the only answer, there are variations like bigender, genderfluid, etc.
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Profile: Maxwallride
Maxwallride on Aug 16, 2015
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Discovering that you are transgender can be a very confusing and challenging time. Someone that is transgender will feel like their gender does not match the body that they were born into. For example, if a transgender person was assigned female at birth, they will feel like they are not a female and instead are male, or nonbinary. They may feel that what they see in the mirror does not match who they really are on the inside and might feel very distressed over this. They may be uncomfortable being called by their birth name and when people use she/her/hers pronouns when referring to them. They may want to transition towards being the gender they feel they really are. This means that they may take steps towards changing their appearance, name, pronouns, and other aspects of their life. A female who feels like they are male may feel a lot better by binding their chest, adopting a male or gender neutral name, and asking people to refer to them using he/him/his pronouns. If someone has a feeling they may be transgender, it may be helpful for them to talk to a healthcare professional who works with transgender people, and read about the experiences of others. It could also be beneficial to experiment identifying with the gender they believe they are.
Profile: MusicalVision
MusicalVision on Aug 16, 2015
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Well, that question can be answered only by you. Do you feel like being transgender? Are you comfortable being one? Are you questioning your gender identity? Try to explore yourself and you'd know the answer. Good luck sweetie
Profile: Fireflies57
Fireflies57 on Sep 11, 2016
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You are the best judge of you. If you feel like you are trapped in the wrong body, then you might be. In the end, only you can decide, and whatever you do decide, there are people who are willing to help!
Profile: Kenai
Kenai on Sep 30, 2016
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That's something that a counselor or therapist specializing in gender identity might really help with!
Profile: Spn2001
Spn2001 on Dec 18, 2016
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This can be different for different people but I would say you never truly know. Transgender is an umbrella term and literally means that you do not identify with your birth given sex, gender in a spectrum and therefore you can be trans gender and not necessarily feel 100% like the opposite gender. Transgender is not just mtf and ftm. If you're not sure if you are or are not transgender, then you probably are maybe not identifying as the opposite gender but somewhere on the scale. maybe try dressing as the opposite gender for a month, have people use different pronouns for you and see how it makes you feel, experiment with gender rolls.
Profile: LadySkeleton
LadySkeleton on Jul 21, 2017
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There's a very simple way to tell. Imagine if there is a pill. If you take the pill, it can automatically change you body into that of your preferred gender with no repercussions. But no matter what you will never be able to change back to the sex you were beforehand. Would you take the pill? For myself, the answer was an immediate yes. That's how I knew, there wasn't any doubt in my mind that I would take the pill.
Profile: AlexCaresAboutYou
AlexCaresAboutYou on Aug 19, 2017
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Figuring out your gender identity is a very personal experience, so there's no one surefire way to know if you're transgender. For me, realizing that I'm transgender was a process, but there were some things that helped. Going on YouTube and listening to other trans people's experiences to see how much I related to them definitely helped, as did being able to find a few people who would let me experiment with my name, pronouns, and gender presentation around them to find what felt right, But like I said before, it's a very personal journey and something everyone needs to figure out for themselves
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 31, 2018
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If you feel as though you are not in the right body. Like the person you are in the mirror is not the person you feel you should be.
Profile: Aayla
Aayla on Sep 30, 2019
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If you think of yourself as a person of the opposite gender, if you don't feel like your biological sex represents your gender and you feel as the opposite, you are trans. There can also be other feelings, like uneasiness with your own body perceived as "wrong", or discomfort with the use of certain pronouns referred to yourself. But who you feel you are is the basis of your identification. It can also help to get in contact with other trans people or with a therapist to start learning the trans reality and yourself better.
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