Is it my fault my family argue?
Barnloft
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Feb 25, 2015
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You cannot control how other people act or feel, you only have control of your emotions and decisions. If family decides to argue or get upset, it's not required that you engage and continue the argument. Only you are responsible for your own emotions and not others. If this causes too much emotional turmoil for yourself attempt to remove yourself from the situation as to help remove further instigation.
Turtrox
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Apr 8, 2015
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No, it's not your fault. I do not know much about your current situation but you should never blame yourself, even if you are the subject of your family's arguments sometimes. Don't feel bad about it, the fact that you worry about it being your fault shows that you never wanted it to happen. Stay strong!!
Rebecca
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Feb 23, 2015
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Of course not! There can be a lot of things causing tension in your family right now, like finances or work. However, don't blame yourself! Try talking to someone in your family about this, so they can be aware of these thoughts and make sure to avoid making you feel this way. If you need support, make sure to connect with a listener!
H3r3ForYou
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Apr 6, 2015
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It is highly unlikely that it is your fault your family argue. All families go through periods where arguing is more common, but that doesn't mean that it is any one person's fault.
butterfly182
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Apr 8, 2015
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No it's not. All family has their complications and difficulties, but at the end, they will figure things out. But nothing you did was wrong.
Anonymous
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Apr 16, 2015
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Certainly, no. Don't blame yourself... Every family have argues sometimes thats not your falut love
jansul917
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Apr 24, 2015
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No, I don't believe it is. You're never the problem, even when you really think you are. That's in my opinion anyway :)
Anonymous
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Apr 25, 2015
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No. No, no no no no. When I was younger, my parents constantly argued (they're no longer together, thank God), and one time my father looked at me square in the eye and said, "If you kids behaved a bit better, maybe we wouldn't argue so much." And that hit me like a ton of bricks. And it hurt. It took me forever to realize my parents arguing was their fault, and even if I were a perfect child, that wouldn't change. It's not your fault your family argues, and I hope you never put that blame on yourself or have it placed upon you by someone else.
AppleSauces
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May 14, 2015
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Not at all! Family is going to argue regardless. Most people do not even need a reason to, they just do it anyway.
Anonymous
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May 22, 2015
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It's never your fault, sometimes your parents argue over tiny things, and they get over it, just like school once in a while you'll get in a argument and forget it, it's never your fault, relationships are never perfect, which is impossible.
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