I hate my husband or wife. Why?

Maybe because of something that they did or said? if you hate your partner then you really shouldnt be with them.

They may have revealed traits about themselves that you did not know about before and they may be causing strain due to this.

Do you feel that you shouldn´t hate but love them? I have good and bad news for you: You rarely can control your feelings towards someone. But on the other hand, that means you´re not a bad person for feeling a certain way. We will always be frustrated by the ones we love, and attachment can give rise to resentment. It´s okay to hate your spouse a little bit, as long as it doesn´t consume most of your feelings towards him or her. If that is the case, and the frustration is the biggest part in your relationship, I would overthink what you can do about it and if not, reconsider that relationship.

This question cannot be answered because it's a deep problem and there can be lots of reasons. You can try and contact me or any other psychologist if you want the answer

You probably know the answer, it's just hidden in you. Did he/she make something you hate? Are you sure you love him/her?

Hate is something which comes one when either there is not much love, or way tooo much of live. Any one of them can be the reason, but let me tell you hate never helped anyone so stay together stay in love, that is best..

In any relationship, there are things we get to know about the other. In a marriage, everything is a compromise and a give and take. A wife may hate her husband because she feels he is not being supported or she is feeling taken for granted by her husband. Ill feeling start to develop, begins with hurt, then anger and ends with hatred. The husband can feel the same for his wife. Many of the hatred also comes from miscommunication. In any relationship, especially in a marriage, strong communication is needed to make a strong bond. Hatred will be diminished from open communication.

Depends on the realtionship you have with him/her and the bond you have maybe there are some thing that you cant forgive yet ?

I hate my husband at times because he is abusive, he is demanding and everything should revolve around him. It is just not fair. And I hate it.

Write down or observe your emotions as to why you hate your spouse. Sometimes due to some memories buried in subconscious mind may also lead to triggering of thoughts. Sit and discuss calmly which may help to understand each other better