I hate my husband or wife. Why?

You have to ask yourself why you're with the person in the first place and the direction you want your relationship to go in. Did your spouse do something you don't like?

It may be because you are unsure of your partner's sex. I would hate them too if I were locked into a relationship and still unsure whether I married a man or a woman.

Take a piece of paper and write down a list of positives and negatives about your partner, this should give you a good idea, but if you hate them then you may be in the wrong relationship and moving forward maybe the best option.

Maybe it's not the most healthy relationship if you don't like them. I'm not going to give advice, but there could be possible visitations with a relationship therapist?

hate is such a strong word, identifying the reasons why these emotions have started to blossom is a good start and working on the root cause will help to build a better relationship.

Maybe you have spent so much time with them that you start to get annoyed with some of their habits.

Ask yourself why. Examine your feelings. What is it about them that is pushing your buttons? What is it about the relationship that isn't working? Is there a lingering resentment left over from a previous experience with this person? Were you unable to communicate how you felt about something that happened in the past? There could be any number of reasons, talking it over with them or with an independant 3rd party might be the key to overcoming the way you feel.

Husband or wife? I'm assuming you wonder why/how people can hate their spouse? It can be for so many reasons, such as falling out of love for the person, they may have been unfaithful or lied about something etc. It's different in each marriage.

Well I'm divorced so it would be easy to give lots of reasons! That said, hate is a very strong and negative emotion and one I try to avoid at all costs, it's detrimental to all concerned...and life is far too short. Move on and be happy :)

The reason could be as simple as you are living a life full of compromises and since you have no one else to blame your spouse is the easy target or the option is they really deserve the hate and dislike and you have been bottling up the dissonance for so long that it has now changed into hatred