I hate my husband or wife. Why?

That question can only be answered by yourself? What has made you hate your loved one? What event has changed your love for them? Are you only saying this because you are angry right now?

I think you're the only one that can answer this question. Have they treated you badly? Are they dismissive or unsupportive? Is it something they have done, or is the problem yours? Relationships are complicated and difficult, and require constant work to keep afloat, I would try to look at yourself, see what issues you have. Look at your partner and see what they might be going through and then look at the ways this is affecting your relationship. Try to open a dialogue, be honest and clear with them and if you both want to fix it, you can work on it together. Couples therapy is always an option, but empathy, compassion, reminding each other why you're together, openness and honesty is a start.

I cannot tell you why, you have to look within yourself to find that answer. Hating someone usually has a root and finding that may help to resolve the issue.

Sometimes being with someone for a long period of time can expose all of their features: good or bad and if we are not used to seeing all of them we can get angry.

There is a fine line between love and hate. Both are intense emotions and really the only way a person can emotionally hurt us is if we allow them, love. We marry a person usually under falisfied illusion of who they are... not because they are trying to trick us, but because we excuse and ignore things we don't like in the beginning. We have dreams and our spouse is part of them, when they don't live upto those dreams we are devestated and that easily turns into hate.

Sometimes I hate my husband because we both have a common goal of buying our family home. Instead of saving for our deposit, he keeps spending money on a car that is never going to run the way he likes it. I have seen him spend oer $70,000 in the last two years on this car. Sadly that is a nice house deposit right there. We could be living in our dream home instead were still renting and paying someone elses mortgage.

Probably he/she does things that makes you mad and then you try to get over every tging they do but it's all getting buried inside you so you get out automatically as hatred

You are the only person truly qualified to answer that question. You need to reflect back upon your relationship and think back to when this change began, and identify what triggered that change in your relationship. Good luck to you, I hope you find the answers you seek and it works out in a positive manner for you. Take care.

Wow....hate is such a strong word. The things you might want to ask yourself are "what" hate truly means to you and "why" do you feel that you hate your spouse? Then the next step would be is to perhaps include your partner of your feelings and why you feel the way you do. Only then can you then take the next steps to figuring out what you want and what you want to do. (Whether it be counseling or therapy for yourself or together). Or someone or some way to help you sort out your feelings and what the best move is next in your life.

Well I don't have wife now and in future itz sure I will not hurt him. I will adore her , care her like anythng.. Well if someone hate then your both ideas are not matching.you still kept something as a secret with you partner