How to stop hating your little sister?

Understand that she is an individual who has separate needs to yours. She may act out but very often there are insecurities in both of you that neither may not be able to understand Family shouldn't be about power struggles but rather how one can support each other . It is often hard when two different personalities live under the same roof but building relationships are all about compromise, a give and take relationship. communicating honestly whilst respecting each other is crucial to a close relationship. you may not like her behavior but no matter what she is family and will always be here to stay

I guess when you start hanging out with her more and start forming a bond you will slowly start realizing how much she means to you :) I mean we all have hated our younger siblings as they tell on us or start fights for no reason. It's mainly cause they are young and are dependent and do not know the difference between good and bad and as kids we went through it and matured out of it. You start realizing that they are kids and that they will grow out of it and become more mature as they grow.

I used to fight a lot with my younger brother for many years when we were younger. Just when I had to go to a mental hospital for about six months we finally realized how much we actually love and miss each other. Since then we haven not fought just a single time. There is a saying that says that only the caged person sees the value of freedom. This is one of my favorite ones because it says that you see the value of things once they are gone and it can be transferred to many thing and it is the same with people. We just realize what they gave us once they are gone. I wish that only the imagination of this will help you to realize how much you love her before it is too late. You might even get to miss the things you found so annoying about her before.

Anyone who has a younger sibling knows how annoying they can get, but I know that I love my siblings. Although I always fight with them and rant about how annoying they are to my friends I still love them. Although they steal my parents' attention and steal/ruin my things, I always will love them. They are family sharing my DNA, living with me in my house and world. They are people that are different but special. I can't really describe it, but I still feel protective of them. I think it's because I know that they are also human beings that deserve better than my hate. It's because although they hurt me (mostly emotional), it's because they have been hurt too. It's because they deserve an older sister (or brother) that can help support them. It's because it's not their fault that their beliefs are different from mine. It's because when no one is on their side, at least I should be on their side. When I find it hard to not hate my siblings, I wait until I've calmed down and reminded myself that I shouldn't hate them because I know how it feels to be hated and it sucks.

I am assuming you are a teenager or young person? I would say it is completely normal to get fed up with, or even really dislike your family member. I have a little brother, so i totally get you. If she is doing something to cause conflict or annoy you, I would try to resolve that if she is old enough. if she is little, she may just be aggravating you to try to get attention. I would honestly just ignore her or walk away from her whenever she does that. That is what i do, or am trying to do.

The first step you should take is trying to understand why people behave the way they do. Sometimes it is very apparent but other times you will have to do some digging. Then you need to empathize with them, and show patience as well as love and care towards them. You should make it very apparent that you are trying to help them solve whatever problem she is going through, and you will help however you can. However, sometimes you may be the problem here. You need to reflect upon yourself first and try to understand whether your behavior is normal, and if not, the steps you can take to resolve the problem.

Unfortunately, this is not that easy. What you need to ask yourself is "why?". Why do you hate your sister? That is the first and biggest question that should be answered. I know it can be very frustrating and draining to dislike (or as you said, hate) someone. You probably feel that there may not be a specific answer to that question. However, there is. Think back and determined when it started. What happened? Can it be reconciled now? Is it something you can control? I hope this helps and good luck!

hate is a strong emotion that rips apart relationships formed ages ago. I do not think anyone truelly hates their siblings. however, siblings do fight and emotions run high during anger. calm yourself down after fights and realize neither of you were in the wrong, sometimes fights do occur, that does not mean the love is gone. to be able to have such a unique and eternal bond with another person is rewarding in it's own way. to feel emotions so deeply for a person you have known since their birth is a rarity, and the love that is there never truelly leaves

Younger siblings can be difficult to get along with, but I think remembering that they are younger is a good way to help you understand them better. Most siblings aren't trying to annoy you, but more likely they want to be with you. Maybe try finding some common ground with your little sister. Find something you both like to do, an activity that could help you bond with her. You could also talk to your parents regarding your feelings, is there some underlining reason you feel this way? Maybe you feel like she's taking all the attention or getting special treatment. These are feelings you might want to share with your parents. Remember that they're young and haven't learned all the wisdom you have.

Start looking at the brighter side of her. I used to hate my little brother too. The hatred made me overlook his positive and loving side. When I saw him terribly sick one day, that's when his good side started flashing in front of me. He's not bad, Unfortunately, my hatred towards him has blindfolded me from seeing his true nature. that's when I realized my mistake. I started looking at those little good things he did for me and everyone around us. Now, we love each other unconditionally. So, I think the key is to keep the hatred aside and start looking at her bright side :)