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How to stop hating your little sister?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 20, 2018
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Try to identify what is triggering the feeling of hatred and get to the root cause of the emotion. Sit down and talk it through with someone you trust or your family members.
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bubblygrapefruit on Jun 21, 2018
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In the midst of an argument, it can be helpful to take a breath and think calmly about the situation. The most helpful method to looking at the situation from a non-bias perspective is to place yourself in your little sister's shoes, and think about what emotions she may be experiencing. Children have wild and unpredictable emotions, and are usually sensitive to changes around them. Take a moment and ask yourself why you hate your little sister, and write a list. Once you finish that list, go over and justify those reasons.
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Anonymous on Jun 22, 2018
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There is no magical solution to this. Instead, your best option would ikely be seeing a therapist and exploring what is leading you to hate your little sister.
Profile: JolivetteListens
JolivetteListens on Jun 23, 2018
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Younger siblings can really cramp our style! ;) They can be annoying but I would like to try a little game. Can you name some of the most annoying things she does? The catch is, for every thing you name that you hate you have to name on e thing that you love about her. Ready? Go!
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jaylaise on Jul 4, 2018
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Just start by respecting and listening to her. You don't necessarily need to like her at first - give it time. Respect is the foundation to everything. Understand that she is your sister, part of your family and deserves your respect. Try to put yourself in her shoes. Try making an effort to be kind and calm. Spend time with her - play board games, or do braid her hair or take her out for ice-cream. Ask her questions, treat her like an adult. You'll find your hatred slowly disappearing.
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Anonymous on Jul 13, 2018
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Try to see positive things in her. Try to support her and may be that result in love. With the help of your parents try to spend time with each other and understand her. The family bonding creates compassion.
Profile: glisteningLion63
glisteningLion63 on Jul 21, 2018
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Maybe you can talk to her and get to know her more and hang out with her to understand what she likes and to know more about her
Profile: RumpleSteeleSkin
RumpleSteeleSkin on Jul 21, 2018
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Well, many ways you can try not to hating your sister. Try and see if she adores you in things you do as a big sister. Communicate with her and share how you feel also. Maybe include her on some things you do.
Profile: TranquilLynx84
TranquilLynx84 on Nov 22, 2018
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I was and still am the "little sister," and the way my big sister treated me my entire life (all the way up to this very day) has affected and altered my personality. One way to stop hating your little sister is to understand that she may feel some of the same ways that her older siblings do, and she will have her own struggles to face in life. As a flesh and blood human, she has feelings and experiences to work through. Even when it appears as if she has it easier than you, it is important to remember that it may not always be that way, and it may not even be that way right now. Everyone is multi-dimensional, and it could benefit both of you to see each other in a way that emphasizes your similarities and commonalities instead of your differences.
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fruityMelon28 on Dec 16, 2018
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Your siblings may annoy you but it's not about hating them. You should think about loving them, As they are the ones who care about you. Little sisters are always fun, they take care of you and often annoy you but still you can love them. Think about them in a positive way and behave in the best way as you can. You can also make them feel that you care about them and will always fell good about them. There will be a good change in her behaviour too. And try spending as much time as you can so that you understand them really well
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