How to stop hating your little brother?

hate often comes from a place of misunderstanding. Is is important to acknowledge that although you and your brother might be very different people who do not mix very well together, it does not mean he is not worthy of respect or the same treatment you would want from others. Try to avoid situations of conflict when possible

Spend more time with him, introduce him to games that you enjoy and that you could play together, this way you can bond and learn more about eachother

Remind yourself that he shares your blood. He's born into your family, just a few years later than you have. Just close your eyes and think for a second. How would you feel if he wasn't present in your life for a day? I have a little brother myself. I can't think of a day without him. I resented him when I was younger, but he never resented his older sister. He loved me everyday and he proved it through actions when he was at the tender age of 5 years old. So, don't hate your brother. Although you may, he'll never do so.

Play with your little brother, read him books, laugh a lot, play board games, always say that you love him when he gets hurt and then give him a kiss on the cheek, he is just little trying to learn new things about the world around us and the little ones depend on the big ones to be nice to them and to look out for them, so always remember we were once little too and we were probably the same way.

A question I used to ask myself when my little brother and I didn't get along well was, "Is it worth it to hate him?" I cannot move forward projecting my emotions if I cannot rationalize the emotion. In the end, I end up drained, fatigued and just fed up with my behavior and feelings towards someone, even if in my honest opinion, my emotions are merited/ valid. In the end, is it worth it, for yourself, to hate him?

Calm down, he's little not everything he does is going to be perfect he's young and still has Alot to learn. I've learned this from experience

It is very hard to understand that your little brother didn't do anything to come into the world. Find ways to connect with him and understand him a little bit better. I have found out that with a connection it is easier to understand.

Start by seeing that he is the person with whom you live and you will be connected for life, whether you want to or not, but if you hate him, it is because you care, maybe he should stop caring and maintain respect and indifference, so it will not be part of your life and you will not spend your energy and time hating it, or maybe you should just talk to him, it depends on the cases of each one but, maybe you will discover things about your brother that you did not know before :)

There are good and bad aspects of everything depending on who you are. Siblings never constantly like each other. However it's a good idea to also look at the good from your brother, even if it isn't aimed at you. Does he get good grades, ride a skateboard well, is he a good friend, etc.? Try to find the good in there.

Understand that maybe he does things to irritate you or make you hate him because he is upset about the lack of attention he gets, or perhaps he wants to be like you. Most of the behaviors younger siblings do stem from their desire to be like their older siblings. Try to be patient with him, as you are older and more mature, and try to focus on good qualities that he has day by day.