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How do I tell my parents I don't want to go to church?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 30, 2018
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this is quite the sensitive topic... break it to them slowly. drop hints at first, to be careful. best case scenario, they understand
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Profile: GrahZeymahzin
GrahZeymahzin on Jun 22, 2018
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Be assertive. If they never know how you feel, things won't change. They might understand, but they might not. But make sure to be respectful in talking to them.
Profile: Caroline1908
Caroline1908 on Jun 24, 2018
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Honesty and open conversations are key! It may be difficult, but try to plan out what you'd like to say to them in advance. & if you don't feel comfortable telling them in person, writing it, texting, or calling is always an option. List your reasoning behind why you don't want to go to church. If you're 18 or older, you're an adult where you can make your own decisions. It's not always easy to go against your parents beliefs, but you need to remember to stick to your own. You don't have to follow something you don't believe in or don't want to practice.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 27, 2018
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Faith and spirituality come very differently for everyone. If you do not wish to attend church, that is your personal choice. If/when you decide to bring this up with your parents, understand that they may have a very different faith than you, and it is very important to remain respectful.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 27, 2018
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I can relate so much. If you're parents are super religious, then I wouldn't tell them that you don't want to go to church. I told my dad that and he yelled at me and was like, "do you not love me?" "do you want me to die?" and it didn't end up so well and my mom didn't talk to me for the rest of the night. I'd wait until you're 18, so your parents can't control what you do anymore.
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Anonymous on Jun 28, 2018
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I am not going. Please go without me. (Not saying anymore but still typing cos i need to hit 100 characters)
Profile: kindFriend77
kindFriend77 on Jul 5, 2018
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Don't make up excuses and tell them the real reasons why you don't want to go to church even though they may like to hear it so that they know how to support you appropriately.
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Anonymous on Jul 8, 2018
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Tell them how you feel, with respect. Tell them that you don' feel good there, they should understand.
Profile: SarahF3
SarahF3 on Jul 11, 2018
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Exposing them the reasons about why you don´t want to go, and telling them that you know about your free right about choosing in what you can believe.
Profile: MarysGrotto51
MarysGrotto51 on Jul 15, 2018
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This can be difficult. If living with them it may cause conflict . It's best to communicate your feelings face to face.
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