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How do I deal with a religious family as an atheist?

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Anonymous on Jun 8, 2017
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Explain your beliefs and why they are important to you. Even if they don't agree ask them to respect your views.
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Anonymous on Jun 9, 2017
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Have respect for all religions even if you cannot relate to the religion on a personal level. You do not need to (nor should you) give your opinions about the other person's faith or religion. It is best to see the religion as a possible source of strength and spiritual vitality for the other person - regardless of whether you practice the same kind of religion or faith or not.
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Anonymous on Jun 11, 2017
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Talk to your family about your beliefs. Try to respectfully explain your beliefs so they can understand your decision.
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Anonymous on Jun 16, 2017
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When anyone has a different opinion it is important to remain calm and polite. Let them know that you respect that they have their own beliefs and that you would appreciate if they gave you the same respect.
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Anonymous on Jun 22, 2017
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Well, have someone to talk to about to get out how you don't believe in religion and someplace you can be yourself. For now, I guess. Also, I would see the positive in the religion. Any holidays to look forward to? Any fun traditions? Blending in, but still knowing yourself better than anyone else and not letting it ruin your non-beliefs, right?
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Anonymous on Jul 6, 2017
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Practicing ethical behavior involves being able to separate ones personal beliefs from the intended goal of helping another. Your beliefs should not determine the value or importance of those with different beliefs. No one's religious views or lack there of determines their right to be respected and/or treated equally. Everyone deserves this.
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tinderbox8888 on Jul 9, 2017
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Find common ground. They may not understand your lack of belief and you may not understand their religion, but chances are you both have things in common that you can bond over. Learn more about their religion and why they believe. Always respect their beliefs even if you disagree.
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TraceAaron on Jul 15, 2017
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The best way to deal with it is to ask them to respect your decision and to not force religion on to you. You should be able to be who you are and your family should love and support you. Live for you!
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Anonymous on Jul 24, 2017
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Try to respect and empathise with their beliefs the same way you want them to respect and empathise with yours. Their belief system is comforting and true to them, and it's important to bear that in mind - a lot of what seems like them pressuring you is coming from a place of concern. Respectfully let them know that you don't feel like you can completely relate to or participate in their religious activities.
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CompassionVigilante on Jul 29, 2017
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Treat them with respect as long as they treat your beliefs with respect. There is no reason that as long as neither side interferes with the others beliefs that this should be a problem. If you do find that you are being discriminated against by your family for having different beliefs, then you can report this to the police if you are a minor, or if you are over 18 simply move out and cut off contact.
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