How can I tell my parents I would like more independence?

You will have to have a talk with them about how you really feel and what it means to have your own independence and how much u would love if they cooperate with u on this.

Based on my experience, an open, half rational, half emotionally sincere discussion would be the first step. If you have a concrete example of "lack of independence causing you either emotional or social harm" as a starting point it's easier and you can start by explaining how that particular situation made you feel and how more independence would have helped you cope better on each level. From that you can start to generalize and reach the main idea and your "request", that being getting your parents to really take your wish into account and realize it's better for you. The tone and the approach are the ones that make the difference. If you manage to keep balanced and level-headed and at the same time to bring both rational and emotional arguments to your parents (these should keep them really involved in the discussion and avoind them getting dismissive) things should work pretty well..

By directly telling them in a serious, heart-to-heart conversation, preferably without the presence of other relatives like siblings. It is best to communicate your thoughts directly to your parents, and I'm sure that if it's good for you, they will let you be.

This is something that took me some time to achieve but with great communication with your parent's independence can be achieved. What I did was I took a gradual approach. I started with small steps. For example, start off with extending your curfew if you have one. Then maybe ask for more days allowed out. Gradually this will increase and you can even ask for more days out on your own. Ultimately these small steps will then work towards gaining more independence overall. For example, having your own room, driving alone, not having any curfew, or the bigger goal.

Asking for independence can be a difficult topic to bring up! I think it's important to set up a conversation where both sides feel comfortable voicing their emotions without accusing anyone. By creating a safe space, you can also get the most out of it by assertively laying out specifically how they can provide you with more independence. Another important part is the timing; make sure both you and your parents are in a good headspace. This way you avoid conflict and have a better chance convincing them. Communicating with parents isn't easy and is definitely something that comes with practice and time. I wish you the best of luck with your parents!

Enter the conversation prepared! Before asking for independence, demonstrate maturity Start by suggesting small things you can take responsibility for such as household chores; taking out the trash, doing dishes, walking the dog... then lead into the conversation and use the as example of your maturity. Another suggestion would be to identify what you would like to do and what independent activities are of interest to you. Are you wanting to go to the movies without parental supervision? Do you want a later curfew? Having specific goals lead to more impactful conversations than just asking for more independence. Hope this helps! :)