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Why do I always think everything I do is wrong?

Profile: originalbraveheart63
originalbraveheart63 on Dec 1, 2016
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It might be because how your parents raised you, try to force yourself into thinking that there are things that you do well and things you dont do well.
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Anonymous on Jan 7, 2017
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I can definitely relate to how you are feeling. I can say that, for me, it may be my lack of self-esteem. I will admit that I need validation from other people first before I engage in an activity. This can be fixed, I feel, by placing more confidence in ourselves. Perhaps, our fear of doing the wrong thing oftentimes causes us to do the wrong thing. But when we have confidence in our own abilities, we act more competently.
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Anonymous on Aug 19, 2017
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It can be beacuse of depression or etc. mental disease. im sure about that it is not about you at all.
Profile: Listeningheart33
Listeningheart33 on Mar 24, 2018
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Maybe because you have low self esteem or maybe because someone created that idea on you, telling you that many times that you started to believe in it
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Anonymous on Apr 15, 2018
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Having low self esteem and how you feel about yourself and feeling helpless in yourself could be a factor, you need to find out why you feel this way. Talk to your doctor you may be surprised your not alone.
Profile: LoveIsLife94
LoveIsLife94 on Apr 26, 2018
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It sounds like you may suffer with low self-esteem. I'm sure that you are doing fine and believing in yourself will help you to know if you are right or wrong.
Profile: EspritDuKaren68
EspritDuKaren68 on May 2, 2018
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Because you may have been conditioned to think that way and just are not conscious of it. Think who in your life might have been critical of you.
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Anonymous on Jun 20, 2018
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Insecurities are the strongest when you're completely focused on yourself and what you do or how you do it. Looking at other people, not judging them but just observing them and talking to them and sharing with them always lets me know that I'm not the only one who doubts themselves. I'm an introvert but I try my best to come out of my comfort zone and force myself to see that even my worst mistakes are easily replicated and dealt with by millions of other people. That makes me stop being so hard on myself and being so pessimistic. It makes me more confident even, sometimes.
Profile: LittleButterfly
LittleButterfly on Jul 4, 2018
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It can really depend because there can be so many factors that could be contributing to these thoughts. These aren't questions that need to be answered out loud, but maybe to think to yourself, is there a history of bullying and abuse? When did these thoughts start? Is there a trigger for these thoughts? A lot of the time with bullying and abuse for example, when we hear things we eventually begin to believe it. Some negative things only need to be said once for a person to believe it, unfortunately. But at the end of the day, you aren't doing everything wrong; and even if you were doing things wrong, it's okay to make mistakes. It's a part of being human.
Profile: Walford
Walford on Jul 20, 2018
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I've gotten negative feedback from others consistently from childhood on. I realize now I wasn't doing what they wanted, but that didn't make me wrong.
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