I'm dating someone with depression and anxiety. What to do?
Anonymous
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May 25, 2016
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Treat this person like every normale one :) Remember that depression and anxiety is a real and serious disease, so comments like "don´t complain about everything" etc is not helpful. good luck :)
peacefulFreedom82
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Jun 11, 2016
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The best suggestion I could give is to be patient and don't give up on them if they are someone you truly care about. Those are two ailments with difficult symptoms to manage. If it effects your relationship, perhaps seeking help from a therapist and. depending upon how involved you would want to be in their path to recovery, maybe it is something the two of you can do together. If the person you're dating feels like they have support and does not feel alienated by someone they care about (you), it could help them on their journey. Depression and anxiety are very complex, and (from personal experience) have layers that lead to other layers that need to be addressed to begin healing. Best of luck!
Anonymous
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Jun 11, 2016
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Always give them comfort. Never get angry or upset at the person and always be patient. when something goes wrong just stay calm and work it out.
Anonymous
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Jun 15, 2016
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Support them and let them know that your willing to listen and be there for them through the good times and the bad times. Let them know they won't always feel this bad.
UntilThen
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Jun 16, 2016
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The best you can do to support them through their depression and anxiety is to show that you care. Do your best not to be angry at them for being anxious or unmotivated. Ask them how you can help, and be willing to support them.
Serifeee
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Jul 18, 2016
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Firstly, you should be patient more than normal. If you are not patient and considerate, you can afflict this one without notice.
Jennabanena
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Feb 19, 2018
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In my experience, the most important thing is listening to them. Maybe you don't always know what to say or how to make them feel better, maybe sometimes you don't even understand the issues they are dealing with. But most people feel much better when they feel like they can open up to someone and not be judged or criticized. Try thinking "I may not fully comprehend their feelings, but their feelings are real and valid. They are going through a hard time". Take care of yourself too. Depending on how bad your partner's depression/anxiety is, being there for them can use up your energy. So make sure you are well rested and fed, engaging in positive activities and generally not neglecting your own well-being. Take care!
transtastic
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May 15, 2016
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Make sure your partner knows that you are there for them and listen to them sincerely. If it seems out of their control, refer them to a counselor
charmingPumpkin74
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May 15, 2016
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first of all come out of it , be with him\her all the time , give full of your attentions. show your loyalty, love , caring towards him\her .
Anonymous
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May 18, 2016
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Let them know you are there for them. When they are depressed, being there for them is the best thing you can do for them. If they are getting really anxious, remind them that you're there and you will help to the best of your abilities.
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