I have a good life why am I not happy?
Janisa
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Apr 5, 2016
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Hi5! I live in a kind of life that many people are jealous of. I can afford whatever I want, go wherever I want, and still I am never happy.
RichBot2000
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Jun 17, 2015
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I am not happy because at some point I was happier. Creating an unrealistic standard by which I measure my life.
Laks1
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Aug 2, 2016
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You are not happy because despite the good life, theres something you are missing and its preventing you from being totally happy
humminghawk
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Sep 11, 2016
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I have asked myself the same question, and I know people who ask themselves this question. I can't tell you why, but I can point you in the right direction. Don't look outside of yourself for happiness. You won't find it there. You will only find true happiness inside. We often interact with things which conjure a sense of happiness. But! That happiness did not come from those things. No, that happiness came from inside of you. It was only coaxed out by something which you enjoyed.
But those things go away, and then we are left without happiness — or so it feels. You must grow your happiness, tend to it like a garden. Do things that make you happy, yes, but do not rely on those things for happiness. Sit silently and see what comes. Stay determined in your inner search, and you will find it.
Peace :-)
Anonymous
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Feb 10, 2015
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I guess the real question to ask is, by whose definition is your life good? If you are not happy maybe you are not living YOUR definition of a good life. Having a good life does not define happiness but happiness defines having a good life
generousWaterfall39
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Dec 10, 2016
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It varies from person to person as many have these feelings. A very common reason is having high expectations and not allowing yourself to celebrate each success. If people continue from one goal to the next, it doesn't leave time to experience the joy of the moment. Sometimes just being on the path to your goal is a tremendous experience. Don't miss out on the joy of being mindful or simply in the moment.
Anonymous
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Jun 18, 2015
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Why am I not happy? I have asked myself that question about a million times. My life is a good life. I have everything I could ever want, and I am supposed to be happy. It took me a long while to understand that depression is also chemical imbalance in the brain, among other things. I learned to accept it and embrace it, and it has taught me many lessons. Also, happiness is something elusive and relative. Don't stress out about that, it is normal and many people go through it (the struggle). I hated myself for a long time due to that fact, but now I just accept more, I guess. It is a personal progress, but many people on here can help you on your journey.
PhoenixB
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Dec 15, 2015
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Your happiness doesn't really depend on you having a good or bad life. There are miserable millionaires and there are cheerful homeless people. Do what makes you happy. If painting makes you happy, paint. If listening to music makes you happy, listen to music. Just having a good life isn't enough to make you happy.
MessengerOfPeace01
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Nov 11, 2016
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Happiness doesn't come when you have a good life. Happiness comes from utter satisfaction. When you have variety in your life and you do both types of activities (mental, physical) along with a mix of some love from people and doing things you like, then you feel satisfied. Though rules aren't fixed, and in life you always go through phases of being happy then unhappy, its like a roller coaster. Usually just changing your habits might help make the down phase move on faster.
Anonymous
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Jun 5, 2015
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I am sorry to hear you are not happy with your good life. Sometimes that can be the case though, and there is no actual answer to your question. Maybe you should speak to your doctor or local GP about this, speak to friends and family- It is important to tell people what is going on- Always here if you would like to talk 1-1 :) Hope you are ok.
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