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How do I tell my parents I'm depressed?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 15, 2017
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There is no sugarcoating it, to get the support you need you will have to say it as it is. Remember that you are asking for support just as you would if you were physically injured.
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Profile: SofieSof
SofieSof on Nov 15, 2017
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In my experience, telling close family members/friends about mental health is best done by being as short and precise as possible. Telling them a little bit about what's been going on, and then - perhaps most importantly - what I need from them. So it could be something like: "Hey mom, I've been feeling quite down recently and I am pretty sure I am depressed. This means that I would really like to start seeing a therapist. I have found one that's covered by our insurance and I was wondering, can you drive me there once a week?" Maybe you already have been diagnosed and have a therapist, in which case it could be modified - I even think bringing it up with your therapist could be really beneficial.
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Anonymous on Nov 15, 2017
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Not only have I been depressed myself but I’m sure if your visiting this website you are looking for the easiest way to tell your parents you are going through depression. Although there really is no easy way out on this you could start off by telling your parents why your feeling this way. As your parents begin to understand what you are explaining to them I’m sure that they will at least try to understand although it feels like that’s impossible. Our parents are the only two people that I’m sure you can trust with everything so telling them is the best way to help you. Just know that you will get better and that they’re going to help you. :)
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Anonymous on Nov 16, 2017
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In my case, i tried to tell my parents several times, and it got pushed off as unimportant. Because i was a child, and their opinion meant so much to me, i believed that it was unimportant, and afterca few times, i stopped asking them, knowing I'd be put down. I did everything to cover it up in fact. I cut, i cried at night, i hid whenever i broke down...
Profile: Lalicz
Lalicz on Nov 16, 2017
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Talk to them calmly, talk about how you have felt the last weeks and that you need their help to get out of this, because parents are a great help at such moments
Profile: brightHoliday35
brightHoliday35 on Nov 25, 2017
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Tell them at the right time. It is important that you are serious. Dont make it a joke. Ask directly for help. And tell them how you feel
Profile: positivePoetry45
positivePoetry45 on Dec 6, 2017
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Start off with a casual conversation and you can work your way in. Ask your parents how did their day go today. When they open up to you, open up to them as well. Explain how your day went and that you feel happy all the time. Parents are always their to listen to us. Even when we are a little hesitant on talking to them.
Profile: contentedHero57
contentedHero57 on Dec 9, 2017
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approach them gently with a kind attitude and tell them that you are depressed and you want to find help from someone
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 10, 2017
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Tell them between the lines slowly, and then reveal more and more to them until they het what you’re feeling.
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Anonymous on Dec 21, 2017
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If you are closer to one of your family members tell them that you want to talk with them Be honest and say everything that is going on your mind..reach out for them..let them listen to you
Profile: happyName29
happyName29 on Dec 22, 2017
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It's good to be up front and honest. If your struggling with depression it's healthy to address it and find the source.
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Anonymous on Dec 23, 2017
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Slowly tell them and it may not seem like it, but they will understand and if they dont help them understand. It will be okay!
Profile: debojyoti012
debojyoti012 on Dec 24, 2017
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You can try saying something like this: “This is difficult for me to say. I have been concerned about your reaction but I have something very serious to tell you. I believe that I may have depression. I have suicidal thoughts at times. These thoughts are frightening and I don’t know how to handle them. I believe that I need help. I am serious about wanting help. Can you please help me?”
Profile: Power14
Power14 on Dec 28, 2017
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You can tell them in different ways, you can tell them face to face, you can write it and then let them know. I know it requires courage to speak your heart out but they are your parents I'm sure they will understand you if you talk to them about your situation.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 4, 2018
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Sit down with your parents and have a honest but loving conversation with them about how you're feeling. Explain to them how this affects your life. If you want their help, you can tell them this as well. A lot of parents are happy to do what they can when they realize you need their help.
Profile: NomenNescioDo
NomenNescioDo on Jan 13, 2018
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Be honest, first word/sentence is the hardest, start with saying mom/dad i want to talk, than stand tall and tell them how you feel.
Profile: healingEagle10
healingEagle10 on Jan 17, 2018
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It’s even courageous of you to want to reach out to your parents about your mental health. When I first told my mother, I sat her down, took a deep breath and just poured out everything I was feeling. I felt so much better afterwards and she was so supportive and vital to helping me get back on track. You don’t have to suffer alone.
Profile: SympatheicSeal7329
SympatheicSeal7329 on Jan 18, 2018
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Make sure to set a time to talk when they won't be busy, and can focus on the topic. Calmly inform them that you've been struggling with depression, and ask for any assistance you need. Inform them of your safety level, your plan to stay safe and anything they can do to help. Expect questions, they are your parents and will want to know.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 21, 2018
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Based on my personal experience it wasn't something that came easily. I ended up telling my schools counselor before telling my parents. I wrote what I was going to say on a piece of paper and gave it to my mum. I then quickly ran upstairs and hid. It gave my mum time to process what I had written without me actually having to speak to her.
Profile: CalmWhisper22
CalmWhisper22 on Jan 24, 2018
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Have a family meeting and just be very honest with them and lay everything on the table. Get the help that you need. Get a good therapist, I would suggest a young person because they seem to know more. Open source counselling is $30-50 per session
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