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How do I stop being judgemental?

Profile: Caringheart23
Caringheart23 on Mar 14, 2018
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Try to remind yourself that you don't know what the person in front of you've been through. Everyone has their own story and own struggles. That always works for me. But it's not easy and takes time. The most important thing is to never stop trying ;)
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Profile: happyPineapple0943
happyPineapple0943 on Apr 15, 2018
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In my experience, the best way to tame a judgemental mindset or attitude is to habitualize empathetic thinking. Put yourself in the shoes of whoever you may be judging and take a moment to appreciate that they have a life as unique and complex as your own and that you never know what may be going on with someone that might be causing or contributing to whatever you may be judging them for.
Profile: izaya
izaya on Apr 20, 2018
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Embrace the ideology that everyone and everything around you is made of different components, and while there are similarities, there are differences. You cannot change the universe around you, but you can change yourself. In order to have a grip over your judgement, you must accept this and admire what's before you for what it is, not what you want it to be.
Profile: positiveForever73
positiveForever73 on Apr 25, 2018
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Treat others the way you wish to be treated. Really is the golden rule here. Sometimes that seems silly. But to me that truly is the best advice.
Profile: exsamaritan80
exsamaritan80 on Apr 25, 2018
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Look at people as trees. Tree's are all different shapes and sizes and this is through aspects they have no control of. The amount of light they receive is not in there control so, like humans, we all receive different light which defines who we are.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 29, 2018
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Not to judge is sometimes hard for some people. And to answer to your question I would say to stay open-minded and exposed yourself to new things and learn to see things in different perspectives.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 2, 2018
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I am still struggling with being judgemental as much as, I am trying to accept that life does not come with an instruction manual. We are human and nobody is perfect. Learning to say that it is okay to make errors is all part of growing as we adapt to a lifestyle that no matter what we do is never going to satisfy anyone but our own selves.
Profile: specialear
specialear on May 3, 2018
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Before you judge, ask yourself, would I want someone to say this about me? If the answer is no, then you should not judge.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 3, 2018
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as Soon as you go to make a judgment on something/someone try to stop yourself and train your brain to give things a chance, maybe see if there is a trigger, if there is try working on it...good luck!!
Profile: friendlySoul49
friendlySoul49 on May 5, 2018
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Put yourself into the shows of your judgement target and when you are able to see things through their eyes you will be unable to judge them.
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