Why is everyone around me always being so mean?
healingCloud74
on
Mar 30, 2018
...read more
There is an increadable amount of social and psychological upheaval prevailing currently on Earth. The vibrational level due to some sort of cosmic rays bombarding our planet is unprecedented, the effect of which is driving many folks absolutely nuts. Best strategy for you is to find refuge with others less effected by this ascension process. It will all come to pass but for now it is essential and critical to protect yourself from others less fortunate to possess your apparent resilience.
Anonymous
on
Apr 4, 2018
...read more
Sometimes people don't know how to express the way they feel, so just rely on anger to solve the issue and make the person go away from them. Some times it may be your attitude that makes them act this way, just because they don't like it doesn't mean they can still justify their rude behavior.
Anonymous
on
Apr 4, 2018
...read more
not everyone is mean, it is just those who were and the people who are around you, keep on seeking for friends and nice people, because they are out there
Anonymous
on
Apr 15, 2018
...read more
Everyone has a mean streak in them, it’s what makes us human to have flaws but nobody can or make you feel inferior. The people being mean may have issues and lash out as a way of coping, they may have problems and don’t know how to deal with it. Maybe asking them why there feeling this way
LoveGodFirst
on
Apr 19, 2018
...read more
Because they think you’re different, and different means unique. Don’t lower yourself to their level, you’re better than them
HelpEachoter
on
Apr 25, 2018
...read more
Maybe you should just ask them! Try to understand it, maybe its a misunderstanding or something you can easily fix,
Nasrz8
on
Apr 28, 2018
...read more
Could be many reasons:
1) You're judging people in a wrong way so you think they're mean.
2) people are actually mean, and you're allowing them to be mean to you.
3) You've done something very wrong you might not knowing about it but they do, so they're being mean to you.
BrandonCares1074
on
May 4, 2018
...read more
These people may not know you and decide to stick with just their friends. They could also be jealous so they are rude to you so you don't feel as good about your self.
MissLouise13
on
May 5, 2018
...read more
Your surrounding yourself with the wrong people then, you deserve people who love and appreciate you for you, don't stay around people that make you feel any less than you deserve,
Anonymous
on
May 9, 2018
...read more
Some people may not like you,but that doesn't mean you should pay too much attention to them.just be you and stay away from negative people.
Anonymous
on
May 23, 2018
...read more
Insecure and lack of confidence. Probably jealous of you and if they aren’t happy within themselves they won’t like to see other people happy
Livelovedream18
on
Jun 2, 2018
...read more
Not everyone you meet in life will be nice. You have to find the nice people who love you for yourself and not the change you will be. I'm more than happy to talk about it
Anonymous
on
Jul 5, 2018
...read more
Probably because they’re unhappy about themself and their life or haven’t experienced any kindness from people. They think that if they treats others bad they’ll feel better about themself. Just don’t listen to them. And be kind. Maybe they need it.
glisteningLion63
on
Jul 21, 2018
...read more
The people that are being mean to you might be going through a tough time them self and the night not know how to deal with it
Bluelight33
on
Jul 25, 2018
...read more
Anxiety and triggers from traumatic experiences in the past can create very suspicious characters which are more in mood to feel discriminated or badly treated then other people. On the other hand someone can show a behavior grounded on her/his individual history and experiences that others can make feel to protect them selfes. If this behavior is shown unwanted and maybe even unconsciously by a someone, it really can confuse all affected people in the communication.
Nat421
on
Aug 1, 2018
...read more
Sometimes people are dealing with their own problems and want to make others feel the same or experience what they are feeling. Remember that people have bad days just like you as everyone is human and sometimes everyone will say something unpleasant that may cause them to feel regret later on. Surround yourself with people that make you feel better and support you on many levels instead of worrying about others that are causing you distress.
ZenNinja
on
Dec 21, 2018
...read more
Many people are so caught up in their own struggles that they have a tendency to react to others instead of responding. Any perceived annoyance can cause a negative reaction and the person may not even realize they are reacting in a mean way. They dwell on what ever problem, issue or struggle they are facing which puts them in a bad mood. I think the best way to handle mean people is to not react to their meanness. SImply say, "I'm sorry you feel that way," and walk away. Pointing out that they are being mean will just make them defensive.
Anonymous
on
Dec 29, 2018
...read more
It may seem like everyone around you is being so mean, but its safe to know that it is our little demons within us making us believe this. I always feel like everyone is active mean to me; starting with my parents and friends, I can get into a really irritating mood. I later realised that they were not always so mean, and it was the little bickering at the back of my mind, in the deepest hole in my souls that was manipulating me. If you try to stay on the optimistic side, these negative thoughts that everyone around you is being mean will hopefully go away.
KaylaBear
on
Jan 3, 2019
...read more
I have found that what I might perceive as someone being mean may actually be jus me taking something too much to heart. Maybe next time someone is being mean we should ask ourselves are they being mean or is it us overthinking something being said to us and taking it the wrong way. It doesn't make us bad people to do that. Just maybe it's harder for us to recognise when it's harmless words and a little too easy for us to assume that we are being put down or being bullied. Maybe we should all jus think a little more.
Rebeccashleigh
on
Apr 10, 2019
...read more
I’m sorry you feel this way and I can’t imagine having the feeling of people always being mean to me but something you need to think about is if your the one that might be causing people to be mean to you. Usually people won’t just automatically be mean to you for no reason there usually has to be a cause or a motive for acting that way, so you just need to ask yourself “ have I done anything to bring this upon myself†and if you can’t think of any reasons then talk to the people being mean to you and ask them if you have done anything personal to them
Talk to an expert therapist
Therapy is a worthwhile investment in yourself. I know it may be...
Talk to Jennifer NowWhy do people hate me for no reason?
330 Answers
What's the best way to get over someone calling you nasty names?
314 Answers
My friend is always negative towards me. What do I do?
275 Answers
What's the difference between bullying and teasing?
272 Answers
How do you get over the feeling that people are laughing at you?
240 Answers
How to deal with people that are bad mouthing me?
230 Answers