Why do people hate me for no reason?
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Moderated by Joe Nelson, Licensed Clinical Social Worker Doctor of Social Work
Updated: Jul 13, 2021
gracefulPalm90
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Jan 9, 2016
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Hatred is such a heavy word and can make people feel bad. How are people reacting to you? what are they saying? what is happening when these feelings occur. People are unique and are different and sometimes just not having a good understanding can make things seem not very nice. After all all people have very good qualities and can make good friends
Youregorgeous24
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Jan 10, 2016
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People dont hate you for no reason. People tend to judge too quickly. you areperfect in your own way
Anonymous
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Jan 10, 2016
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People don´t hate you they just want to get to you so they have more power. When you come here you are loved no matter what!
Anonymous
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Jan 13, 2016
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Have they ever said to you that they hate you? it can be very easy to feel that someone hate you, but that doesn't mean that they actually hate you. But if they do there can be a lot of reasons and its best just to ask the person why.
Anonymous
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Jan 27, 2016
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Sometimes it's not the people who hate us but we, who are overthinking things. If they hate us, There must be some weakness in us which we have to deal with and make those 'weaknesses' our 'strong' points. People also have personal reasons to hate. I would just end my answer by saying, People hate.. Even the nicest people do. It's we ourselves who are important. If we think positive about our life, we would get positive outcomes from people too.
MrEthical5241
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Jan 27, 2016
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Everything has a reason. ( ^ _ ^ )
Maybe, you did something really successful or said something that has offended them. In my personal experience, We all will have people who will disagree with us in every steps we take. Example, Pizzas are part of balanced diet, No it's not or maybe it is. All we can do is ask why they hate us/you. ( ^ _ ^ )/
eternalHeart88
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Jan 29, 2016
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they may be jealous of something you have that they do not have. is that a possibility? what do you think the reason you feel that way may be?
HazelEyes2
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Feb 4, 2016
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Maybe they don't actually hate you. Maybe your view of yourself is so negative that you think people dislike you when they don't. It is an easy thing to do!
Rebekah
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Nov 17, 2020
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I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling that way. It must be really frustrating. I've been in your position many times, it's a really difficult feeling to have. What makes you feel as though people hate you? Sometimes, we have beliefs that are very different from fact. There's a high chance that you're not hated at all (though of course, your thoughts and feelings are completely okay and 100% valid). Different types of people show how they feel in many different ways. They may offer certain feelings, moods, behaviours or emotions when they feel the complete opposite. Actions do speak louder than words. There's a chance that the person(s) who you think may hate you have had a bad week, are frustrated, stressed out, or have had issues with their family members, or maybe even issues with money. They may act out in the moment or say things that they regret. Social interactions are sometimes difficult for us, and we may think without our brains or hearts and act out of frustration. Jobs or studies may cause friction, as well as different families - negative feelings as a whole may contribute to others sending out signals of hate. If you'd like to try and find out if they actually hate you, you could try to talk to them - put effort and energy into finding out what's going on. Have a conversation with them, or video call them if you're comfortable; sometimes starting platonic relationships with those people could help to relieve feelings of hatred from them.
GoldenRuleJG
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Nov 17, 2020
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Normally past memories of mistreatment from those in your life and how you interpret others verbal or non-verbal communication style can be dependent on whether or not you feel others hate you. Individuals ideas, plans and perception of boundaries conflicting with your own can create the impression that others don’t view you favourably and it’s also dependent on ability to take on opinions different from your own , as well as how you respond to differences. To raise self-esteem the first step would be to take it easy on yourself and practice mindfulness to resolve the solution of feeling disliked by others , reflect on whether or not your relationship with best friend has boundaries and time you two spend together resolving issues, meeting up. Importantly do not be afraid to answer questions to clear misunderstandings. People may not view you as you think. It could be one of those things also that this person is only being nice so that they can manipulate you but that is not always the case - do not let one bad experience encourage you to make generalisations.
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