Why can't I have people see that being bullied isn't a minor thing?

Bully isn't minor. Bullying should be solved at once for it is not right to treat other people unfairly

Becasue people want to see the eas thigns in life instead of the things they cant control becasue people dont want to be reminded they have no control so they avoid

Some people just dont understand. You need to sit them down and make them know bullying leads to unwanted things. Suicide is an effect of bullying. They might not have been bullied much so they won't understand or know how much it really affects people.

For people who have not experienced being bullied or are so far removed from that experience to be able to relate to it, it is always going to be difficult to have them hear just how harmful and serious it can be. That is the case with anything though--if people are far removed and cannot take it to personal consideration it is harder to relate to and take up as the view you the beholder is seeing it. That doesnt mean bullying is a minor thing by any means---even cyberbullying is considered a crime in some places and has been moving towards recognizing just how damaging that form of intolerance can be for individuals on the receiving end. Just because the people you try to have see your perspective aren't quite getting it, don't let it get you thinking you are to take what your experiencing as a minor thing by any means. With a persistent voice you can accomplish getting people to hear you