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What's the difference between bullying and teasing?

Profile: peqchybliss
peqchybliss on Mar 18, 2021
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i have been bullied before. teasing is once or twice. bullying is many times ongoing for a long time. you start to not want to go anywhere near where the people bullying you are. teasing may be a silly game and you have to understand that but you also have to know your feelings too. bullying is an ongoing thing. you will get through this, i just know you will, because you are a strong person and you have been through so much in your life. i’m always here to help if you need me, just message me right here on 7 cups!
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Profile: SimontheWayfarer
SimontheWayfarer on Mar 19, 2021
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There is a mutual understanding in teasing that both parties understands and feels that it is not offensive, that the joke/prank is for the sole purpose of fun and enjoyment, it will not be intended to harm and is done in an ultimately respectable way. In bullying, however, there is an imbalanced power dynamics at play. The bully has a higher status (physical, social, etc.) than the bullied and is doing something that the bullied finds offensive/uncomfortable/disrespectful and wishes that the bully would refrain from doing it. Obviously this can occur in words and with violent actions. But I think it is also be bullying if one tries to smear someone to harm them
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 31, 2021
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Verbal bullying is different from teasing. It’s not done to make friends, or to relate to someone. Just the opposite: The goal is to embarrass the victim and make the bully look better and stronger. The tricky thing is that bullying may start out as teasing. But when it’s done over and over and is meant to be hurtful or threatening, it becomes bullying. Verbal bullying includes calling a victim names, taunting, and sexual harassment. It can happen in person, through texting, and online through social media and email. Bullying also involves an imbalance of power. Bullying victims usually don’t provoke it. Rather, kids may not be able to defend themselves because of their physical size, or because of their social position in school or in a group. And if a victim gets upset, bullies typically don’t stop. The bullying may even get worse. Unlike kids who are being bullied, kids who are being teased can influence whether it continues or ends. If they get upset, the teaser usually stops.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 22, 2021
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Teasing is poking fun at someone, calling them a name maybe once or twice, saying something negative about them one time. Teasing can also be friendly such as a joke between friends. Bullying is consistent, and persists over a long period of time, have a very negative impact on the person being bullied. This would be being called names every day, despite asking people to stop, being told you are fat or ugly all the time. If you are being bullied, please go to a teacher or other trusted adult so that it will stop. Teasing can quickly turn into bullying if it continues. If someone is teasing you and you don’t like it, ask them to stop, and if it continues, go to an adult.
Profile: ChiZsmiles
ChiZsmiles on May 8, 2021
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With bullying, the person's goal is to inflict pain or some form of harm on the victim. Also, there is a power imbalance between the victim and the bully; the bully is seemingly more powerful. However, this is not the case with teasing. With teasing, it is more playful and there is no power imbalance; you are both on the same level. Sometimes with bullying, manipulation can be involved but this is not the case with teasing. Overall, with bullying, the victim would not like it and would not want to be in that situation. However, with teasing, both parties are okay with it. Additionally, most times bullying occurs frequently however, teasing doesn't need to be as frequent as bullying and harmful.
Profile: Tasawar
Tasawar on May 9, 2021
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Teasing is something that occurs among friends while bullying is something that hurts the other person. Teasing is playful banter among friends but bullying involves negative feelings and attitude against something. Sometimes a person may think they are teasing another person but it may result in bullying if it continues in a negative situation. It is important to make sure the other person isn't feeling negative about themselves or the other person isn't abusing the other person. Teasing although is playful can lead to bullying which is always important to make sure that your friend or colleague isn't being hurt by your words
Profile: LetsCherishLife
LetsCherishLife on May 12, 2021
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I think it depends on both the bullier/teasers intention as well as the victim's experience. Is it bullying if someone just wanted to tease and make a bit of fun but it crosses a limit for the victim that feels bullied by it? Or is it bullying if the person doing it wants to make the other person feel bad but they still think it's just a joke? It think it definitely is bullying if someone wants to make others purposely feel bad and achieves that by their action but it is a fluid transition from teasing to bullying and it can be bullying even if just one of the two is given.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 19, 2021
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the difference between bullying & teasing; teasing is a form of communication, whilst bullying is meant to hurt others. various people tease one another to build a strong bond & to make new friends. bullying CAN start off as teasing, which can then lead to hurtful messages. bullying can occur through either face-to-face, or online ( cyberbullying ). several kids have trouble making friends, which can then end up w/ them putting up w/ teasing that hurts to 'fit in,' or, 'be noticed.' overall, you have to ask yourself whether or not you're comfortable w/ teasing. if not, politely to ask them to stop. you'll figure out that they've been doing it to get to your head if they continue.
Profile: nevaeh12367
nevaeh12367 on May 19, 2021
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Teasing is meant to be playful and harmless in a petty or annoying way but bullying on the other hand is meant to hurt you and intimidate you because you are perceived as little or vulnerable and unable to fight back. I have been teased playfully in a way that was funny to me but I have also been bullied and made to feel endangered. If you feel like someone is tormenting or oppressing you because you are seen as a minority. Sometimes, teasing can be frustrating and hurtful when it is a personal joke that you don't find funny. People bully because they are hurt and want to inflict pain on others and because you have something they don't have.
Profile: JustPiscesThings
JustPiscesThings on May 28, 2021
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The most important difference, in my experience, between bullying and teasing is how the person who is being targeted is taking it. For some people, certain behaviors might be brushed off as teasing and simply an annoyance, while it may cause genuine harm to some others who are more "sensitive". Of course, sensitivity is entirely relative, so it is important to always keep in the back of your mind that you have not lived anyone else's experience, and that what you think is fine could easily cross a line into bullying without you realizing. That's why it is vital to respect anyone else's boundaries, regardless of how you believe your own actions should have been perceived.
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