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Is it my fault I am being bullied?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 7, 2015
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No its never the victims fault. you didn't do anything wrong you can never blaime yourself i understand that its frustrating but its never the victims fault.
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Anonymous on Jul 14, 2015
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It is never anyone's fault that they're being bullied. No one deserves to be treated unkindly or meanly.
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Anonymous on Nov 16, 2015
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No, it is definitely not your fault you are being bullied. Bullies simply have their own personal insecurities and so to boost their self esteem they seem to think it is okay to point out other peoples insecurities or flaws. but no one is perfect and so you should ignore them because if you are happy with yourself, then that's the only thing that matters
Profile: BatWings89
BatWings89 on Dec 14, 2015
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Being bullied is never the victims fault. Never! People are bullying you and that is not okay. Check out the guides here and never ever base your self worth on the bad things other people say.
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Anonymous on Dec 28, 2015
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Absolutely, completely, totally not, because bullies have darker pasts and struggle a lot, so they hurt people to make them feel better so it is obvious that it is not your fault
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No, it's never your fault if others decide to bully you. The only reason why people pick on others is because they think it looks cool and it makes them feel better, probably because they've had someone pick on them too in the past. But it's not cool and it's not fair on the person getting bullied and you don't deserve any of it, and I really do hope you manage to report it and get it dealt with so that it stops!
Profile: brightOcean69
brightOcean69 on Apr 25, 2016
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it is never your fault you are been bullied as most bullies have their own stuff and can't deal with it so they bully others
Profile: Remina
Remina on Jul 12, 2016
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No. It is not your fault that you are bullied. No one deserves to be mistreated in any form or fashion. Normally the person who bullies you has an unhappy life and they take joy out of hurting you in the way that they do. Usually a bully isn't getting attention at home and so when they bully you, then enjoy the fact that you give them the attention they want. But it is not your fault.
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Anonymous on Oct 10, 2016
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No it isn't. It's not your fault. Bullies bully people because they themselves have been bullied and they want others to feel how they've felt or they're too insecure of something you're self concious about or they're jealous of something you have or something you are and they're not and they don't have it. Bullies usually pick random people to pick on, so do not blame yourself for getting bullied
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It's never your fault if you're being bullied, even if you're being told that. It's always the bullier, or the bulliers parents or someone else who's causing the bullying to happen's fault
Profile: cherishedJet13
cherishedJet13 on Apr 18, 2017
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No it is never your fault for being bullied. You are the victim and you should never be blamed because you didn't ask to be bullied, people are just insecure and jealous which is why bullies tend to bully others. But never ever think it is your fault.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 2, 2020
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No it is not your fault. Bullies like to make people,feel like it is your fault,but it is there fault. So please do not feel like it is your fault. If you have been bullied, and need support please reach out to a listener here at 7cups. They can offer support and suggestions on how not,to feel that way. If you are being bullied by someone it is ok to tell someone, you trust, like a friend or a teacher or your Pastor. I am disabled and I have been bullied. It was not a fun thing to go through. It made me stronger and wiser. It is never your fault your the victim.
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Anonymous on Apr 11, 2015
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It's always quite common that -- all victims seem like they are the reason that they feel bullied. It is not your fault trust me. Just do not turn into the bullier okay.
Profile: beautifulSoul02
beautifulSoul02 on Apr 16, 2015
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It is never your fault for getting bullied. Normally the bully has something going on in their life which causes them to want to upset other people
Profile: jordanthetrekkie
jordanthetrekkie on Jun 22, 2015
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No it is never your fault. You are not the antagonist. Usually bullies have experienced failure, been bullied before, or have been inadequate in some way. They take it out on people they view as weaker.
Profile: Specialrain
Specialrain on Aug 10, 2015
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No, it is never the victims fault that they are bullied, quite often the bully will be experiencing horrible things in their life and they feel that it needs to be taken out on someone or something.
Profile: WesternCanada1
WesternCanada1 on Sep 15, 2015
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It is absolutly not your fault that your are bullied. Not at all ! Th problem is when you feel you are the victim and get what we call " secondary gaining" from being a victim . This is what you have to change: your inner attitude towards whatever happens to you.
Profile: CaringBrit
CaringBrit on Feb 8, 2016
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no it is not your fault your being bullied at all you havent done any wrong in any way or caused it to happen
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 21, 2016
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You are bullied because the people want to bully you to feel superior. You are not the reason why people chose to pick on you.
Profile: dancingLight63
dancingLight63 on Jun 13, 2016
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It's not your fault that you are bullied. I have been in the same position and it's not your fault. Usually the bully has a personal issue that they are trying to deal with and projecting them onto others.
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