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How you can deal with bullies without reporting them

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 1, 2016
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you need to just ignore them with a smile and not pay much attention to them...dont show your weakside to them.. thats it!
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Profile: Kaysha
Kaysha on Oct 11, 2016
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Bullies feed off of a reaction, although it may be hard, the only thing you can do is ignore them and wait until they get bored.
Profile: mhiggins
mhiggins on Nov 8, 2016
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Bullies are always difficult to deal with, because like my mom says they are always going to be there no matter where you go. If you don't want to report them because trust me in some cases that can just make it worse, just try to ignore them and not focus on the things that they are saying because honestly they are just unhappy people who have nothing better to do.
Profile: sophialovesyou
sophialovesyou on Jan 2, 2017
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To be honest, talk to an adult, and tell them to keep who told anonymous. It's better to let someone know.
Profile: friendlyIcicle64
friendlyIcicle64 on Jan 16, 2017
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There is not much you can do with bullies without reporting them to someone. But you can always stand up for yourself and be confident about you. Try telling them to stop and that you are not putting up with them or the problems that they bring. If that doesn't make them stop you can always attempt to ignore them, if it gets to problematic to ignore then I really do suggest telling someone about it.
Profile: RumpleSteeleSkin
RumpleSteeleSkin on Feb 20, 2017
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Bullies only keep going by the audiences reactions. It isn't right to get bullied and it doesn't feel good either. I can only share to you that don't react to them no matter what. Leave out and yes doing a report is right. So that the right people can handle the bullies. Be strong and know you are loved
Profile: eeveeon
eeveeon on Dec 4, 2017
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You can ask them to stop as it is really affecting you, or you can react differently (I.e. don't pay attention to them or give them satisfaction). However, if these don't work and you are still being bullied I believe you should report them.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 23, 2018
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Tell them that they are hurting you.Stand Up, Be Your Own Hero Don't Be Afraid Just tell them straight that stop bullying that's not ok
Profile: glowingAngel9064
glowingAngel9064 on Apr 6, 2021
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If you’re being bullied there’s a lot you can do. While different tactics work for different people, the first thing you should do is try to work it out yourself.When you walk away you're taking away the bully's power! Stay Positive It can be hard to remember all your good points when someone is doing their best to be negative. However, try to think of all the things you do well and remember that you are a valuable person. Thinking of how bad the bully must be feeling may also help you to stay positive. Picture Your Bully Like This... Picture your bully standing on their head with their body stretching – almost as if they were standing in front of a distorted mirror like the kind you see at a carnival. Listen to their voice as it comes out all distorted and warbled. And they’ve turned yellow with pink stripes. Now who’s laughing? Build An Armored Shield Around You Visualize a tall armored shield. Build that shield around you and when it’s up, imagine all the things the bully is saying bouncing off that armored shield. Be Confident Bullies usually pick on people that they think are weaker than they are, so stand up to them. You might be scared but if you keep standing up to them they'll stop.
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