How do I know if I'm a bully?

If your actions make people unhappy and/or uncomfortable or if you use intimidation to get what you want.

Think if your actions or words are hurting those around you and if they are, you most likely are a bully,

Self evaluate your actions. Imagine yourself in the other person's shoes. Are you hurt by the words you said? Or by the actions?

people will be afraid of you some people may straight up tell you, you may find yourself picking on a kid.

Being mean to someone, such as rolling my eyes to them, yelling at them or pushing them for no reason. Hurting them with my words or being aggressive to them

If you are... Constantly maming a person feel bad, you are most likely a bully. Of course they is a chance you are accidentally bullying, but I think the best way is to ask people how they feel. Check with those YOU feel like your bullying to know for sure

Before you say something, think about whether you would like it if someone said it to you. It's always good to put yourself in someone else's shoes to see how you come across.

If you are making fun of something or someone even after realizing that it’s getting out of the limit instead of saying sorry and stopping right there , you are carrying on with the immature attitude.

A bully is a person who repeatedly hurts others, verbally and non-verbally, usually targeting people who they think are weaker and/or different. Ask yourself: do I derive satisfactions from other people's hurt feelings or failure? There is a feeling called Schadenfreude – it means pleasure derived from another's misfortune, and while it feels good, it leads to bullying. Another thing that can make you a bully is the feeling that you have to appear tough and control others. Think about your conflict-resolving skills. If you avoid conflicts by aggression, you may be a bully. Sometimes we also bully under the pressure from other bullies, when we feel like we have to pick a side, and we prefer to be a bully than to be bullied.

You can tell if you are a bully by your actions with others. Do you encourage them or make fun of them? Do you offer friendship or having friends pick on them? How do you feel you interact with another person?