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Will I ever find someone else to love me?

Profile: Neutral7
Neutral7 on Oct 12, 2018
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Our world has a population of 7.7 billion. And among them, one or the other would surely be the one you are looking for. Not everyone gets their soulmates at the age of 21. Good things take time and when you are talking about your relationship, that's the best thing. So just hang in there.
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Profile: avalongo2023
avalongo2023 on Oct 24, 2018
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Yes, everyone finds love in some way. It can be female, male or whatever. It can be short or forever, a summer fling. But once you find the one you will know, you will know that this person won't cheat or lie. Whether you get married or not or have kids doesn't matter. I don't know when you'll find that love of yours it could be at the first day of your life or your last. I believe in love at first sight, if you see them and you feel like you're a giddy teenager at there first dance. So yeah you'll find love and it might last a life time.... stay true to yourself.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 5, 2018
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This was one of the hardest lessons I personally had to learn in my life. The only person that NEEDS to love you is you. If you continually work on loving yourself, taking care of your body: physically, mentally, and emotionally, then everything else will follow. You don't need to depend on anyone to love you if you love yourself. You'll generally be a happier person because you'll know your worth and then a person who will match your energy will find you. This was kind of a general question but yes, you will find someone who will love you...don't focus on that too much though. Focus on thriving on your own.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 15, 2018
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The answer to this question is always yes. Love, theoretically, is not rare. In fact, it is extremely and beautifully abundant and shows itself in a variety of ways. Ie: family, friends, significant others. To make a quote, "Man is a social animal". We cannot live comfortably without human connection. Combined with our primal need for relationships, here's a fun fact: there are approximately 7.3 billion people in this world. At least one person out of that big number will love you. However, I would advise that you don't forget about yourself. Self love is the most important of them all.
Profile: SerendipityStormracer
SerendipityStormracer on Nov 17, 2018
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Yes. Even if 99% of the world hates you, the one percent is made up of 745470000000 people. You'll find someone out there for you, and your family and friends love you and would definitely notice if you disappeared off the face of the earth. It's never too late to fall in love. When you meet the right person, who you know for sure you love, be it a guy, gal or nonbinary pal, fear becomes irrelevant, and everyone likes different things. Just because it seems like no one loves you doesn't mean no one loves you, be it as a friend or family member or lover. Don't let your want of romantic relationships hinder your formation of platonic relationships.
Profile: BritishListener
BritishListener on Nov 18, 2018
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Yes! and you already have! Friends, family, neighbours, internet friends, someone cares for you. To minimise to love to purely romantic is to miss out on the beautiful platonic relationships you already have. And to love yourself is more rewarding than it all combined. As for romantic love, i understand how difficult it is sometimes to be single, but in order to find the right person, you need to be the best you that you can be and happy being single, i truly believe that. So spend time treating yourself in the way you'd care for a partner, buy yourself presents, give compliments, watch films alone and appreciate your company. you're amazing.
Profile: anxiouslybeautiful2
anxiouslybeautiful2 on Dec 13, 2018
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Everyone is loved. Regardless of who they are. There will always be someone out there to love you. It will come in many shapes in sizes. Love is everywhere. I can assure you that there are so many people who love you right now. I love you. Strangers all around the world love you. You are great and you are worth everything. Never forget that. But why ask if you will ever find someone else to love you? That person will find you to love. They are out there looking for you right now. One day they will come. And it will be natural. Don't ever lose hope.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 4, 2019
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Absolutely! The way you say someone 'else' sounds like that you've had someone who's loved you before. If it's happened in the past, that's solid proof that it's possible. And if it's possible, who's to say it won't happen again? Life can change in an instant, you could meet the right person tomorrow and instantly know they're the one. Or, more likely, you'll form a close relationship over time that's built on trust and affection. The point is that (I believe at least) there is someone out there for everyone. I know, kinda cliche, but hear me out. There are literally billions of people living on this earth, and everyone has their own unique personalities, and chances are that you'll find someone whose traits match or complement your own. Don't give up, but don't rush or try to force something that you don't feel just for the sake of feeling affection.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 9, 2019
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Yes, you will. Always, in one part of the world one person is waiting for you. And you family loves you unconditionally. So be happy, the loves makes the world spin. Everything is gonna be alright, i know it seems hard right now, seems like nobody loves you or like you, But sometimes the right person is in front on you and you don't even notice. I hope you see soon that you're special, you are important. you are loved, you are a really great person and you can do great things. Have a nice day, i hope my words can help you a little bit.
Profile: NordligSno
NordligSno on Jan 10, 2019
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Of course you will! There are 7.7 Billion people in this world (2019). From that, you can only assume how many kinds of personalities, appearances, and more there are out there waiting for you. All you have to do is be patient about it. Because the more you rush feelings or a relationship, the stronger the chance is that it'll be wrong for you, that you end up in something abusive and more. In the meanwhile, you can focus on yourself. Show yourself self-care, get any potential help you might need and make sure your future is as bright as possible. (This is more for you than it is for them) My point is, don't lose hope. You'll find someone eventually. :) I believe in you.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 28, 2019
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Of course, you will. You are a very strong person who has a kind heart and a great personality. Someone who will appreciate you for who you are and what you do will come to your life and make you feel all warm inside. That person will love you forever. Every heartbreak leads to the person who is meant to be with you and cherish you. Just keep your chin up and look on the bright side to everything. The right person will be there soon, and you will be happy with them. Just wait a bit longer. Patience
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 9, 2019
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I am a firm believer in the fact that everyone has someone out there for them. I've been single my whole life and i know its because i havent found the one and people can be cruel. When you are down or suffer mental illness it can be really difficult to find self-worth and when you dont respect or love yourself you can let others off with behaviour that is disgusting and not the way anyone should be treated. Someone was created for each person on the earth and there is no rush to find the one for you.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 12, 2019
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Well, that is a very tough question to answer. What I can tell you is that if you love people in return they will love you back. I would say don't go around looking for love but allow love to find you. Be nice and kind to everyone and you never know if one of those people you are being kind to want be your future lover or spouse. Love is every where the problem is that we can not always see it because we allow other distractions to get in our way and it prevents us from finding love. I hope and pray that you find the love of your desires in your heart.
Profile: handyhippie65
handyhippie65 on Mar 29, 2019
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You wonder if you will ever find another to love you, and be loved in return. This is normal. We morn for the loss, and wonder if we are deserving of love again. Know that everyone is deserving of love and companionship, and if you remain open and caring, you will surely find it again. Love usually comes when we least expect it. Think of how it found you last time. Did you seek it out? Were you actively hunting for your mate? Or did the universe bring it to you? Think of places that you can meet like minded people. Put yourself out there, and when you are ready, you will find it again. Trust yourself.
Profile: chillGrace14
chillGrace14 on Apr 28, 2019
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The short answer is yes. Sometimes, relationships don't work out. Sometimes you even pour all you have into loving a person and they seem to not want that love back. If you love them and they don't love you back, then they don't deserve you. But there is hope. Someone is out there that appreciates your love. Some people aren't meant for romantic love, and that may or may not be you. If you are, then your person is out there. I promise. If you aren't, then there are still people to love you. Find a family member you're close to or a best friend and pour into them instead. If they're the one, then they'll pour right back into you.
Profile: rxgdxll
rxgdxll on May 1, 2019
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Yes you will. I understand how you feel with this question because I’ve been in your exact spot before myself. I went through countless relationship because when I was single, it didn’t feel like someone loved me. And I simply wanted that love. But don’t force it. Let a relationship go at its own pace when you find someone. It may start out a simple friendship or it may start with you both flirting and progress to more. But don’t rush anything. Or expect the very first person you come to be the perfect person for you. Nothing is ever perfect on the first try.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 23, 2019
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Everyone has someone out there that was made just for them so yes I believe someone else will love you. There are like 7 billion people out there. I guarantee there are soo many people out there who can love and support you. There is someone out there who needs you just as much as you need them. You might have met them once, maybe you won't meet them for a while or maybe they are your best friend whoever they are they are waiting for you just like you are waiting for them. You just need to hold on a little longer and stay strong because I promise they are out there
Profile: Kimowp52
Kimowp52 on Jun 26, 2019
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My mother always told me that you fall in love at least three times in your life once when your first-born you fall in love with your parent again sometimes within the middle of your life and if that doesn't succeed you got another try always believe that you can fall in love various time and there will always be someone to love you so yes you will find someone who loves you and you mean not know it at first but love is found in the most unexpected places just don't push yours let it happen naturally good luck
Profile: sweetnsoft
sweetnsoft on Aug 2, 2019
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Love is complicated. Sometimes you seek it out, other times you trip and dive headfirst into it. There are many people who may admire you, even ones you might not expect. It's normal to be unsure at first. I fell in love with my now girlfriend a few months ago, it started off a a simple crush but I found the courage to ask her, and it turned out that she returned those feelings. Of course, this may not happen to everyone, but love can blossom from the smallest things. It's alright if you feel lost or skeptical at the moment.
Profile: hope786
hope786 on Aug 8, 2019
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Of course you will. It may take longer for different people but in the end you will get there! You may feel otherwise and down but remember there are many many people out there, some whom feel the same way you do. I understand that it may be upsetting and frustrating but in the end you will find someone as a result of your commitment. Feeling this way is very normal but never forget that there are many people who love you without you knowing. So don't worry! If this feeling continues feel free to talk to one of our friendly listeners. :)
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