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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 16, 2015
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Many people, men and women, sadly cheat instead of doing the right thing and breaking up with someone if they are unhappy with them. There is many potential reasons people do this. I think a large majority of them do so because they are looking for something that isn't being fulfilled in their current relationship, but also want the comfort of a partner to come home too.
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Profile: ListenerJo
ListenerJo on Nov 23, 2019
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I believe it hasn't have to do with "women"... people in general are afraid of breaking up because they are either used to the other person or they are afraid of being alone Having someone next to you its comforting, i believe that is why people want to have that guarantee On the other side, they are too cowards to say "i don't love you anymore". They can't measure the damage they cause for wanting to save that pain Cheating it's not for men or women, it's for disrespectful people who doesn't know what they actually want Don't be that kind of person
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 2, 2014
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Women usually cheat instead of breaking up because they are usually scared or embarrassed to break up with you. Cheating to them is less harsh in their mind but in real life it usually breaks their Boyfriends/Girlfriends heart. If you are one of those girls and you are reading this, think about it before you cheat on someone. It hurts way to much.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 23, 2014
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Why do men do the same thing? Stereotyping a behavior doesn't help us to understand it. Blaming women, won't help you understand what one woman did. Ladies, the same is true in reverse as well. We all make mistakes. We hurt each other. There are good aspects to human nature as well as bad. To err, is human.
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Anonymous on Dec 2, 2014
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Women need security and are unable to leave even a bad relationship. They might love their partner but feel like they lack something fundamental that makes them feel loved. They start looking for what they are lacking else where
Profile: KendallNichole
KendallNichole on Dec 6, 2014
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People cheat for all kinds of reasons, unfortunately. Sometimes who they're cheating with could just be for sex, not an actual relationship. So when they have both sex and a relationship, they may not want to mess that up. Another thing is being afraid of breaking up with someone. Breaking up with someone is a really hard thing to do, especially because there are many reasons for why breakups happen. Cheating is a way of escaping what needs to be done.
Profile: ImHereIPromise
ImHereIPromise on Apr 12, 2015
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Not all women do this. Some women do break up and mabye it just some women?! This makes no sense but oh well. We mean well honest but a women needs a man to have fun and felt loved with then they will drift off slowly......and then they cheat as they dont want to hurt you....and they do not think you will find out so in a way it is easier. I hope this makes sense! And helps...xx
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 4, 2015
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Sometimes people cheat because they are scared to break up their partner or want to be with both their parter and the one they are cheating with. Alternatively some people cheat because they get a thrill out of doing so which is very hurtful for everyone involved.
Profile: erinyes
erinyes on Mar 14, 2016
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Women are predominately disposed to seeking out what they lack in their relationship. Whether that's an emotional or physical void, I feel that women are more inclined to cheat based on their perceived lack of affection, physical intimacy, etc. They choose not to end the relationship because they feel it's something they can still work on. They do not want to lose the person either because they feel insecure in doing so and/or they still love their significant other, but can't suppress the urge to cheat because of the before-mentioned reasons.
Profile: Brittneym101
Brittneym101 on Aug 6, 2015
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All women are different, meaning that they all have different reasons as to why they would cheat. This goes for men too. I feel like people cheat instead of breaking up because they either don't want to hurt you by ending it or because they still want to keep you around. They want the best of both worlds. Is cheating right? NO not at all. I honestly feel like it should be illegal to cheat considering that they're diseases out there that you can get from doing so, but that still may not stop people from doing it. I would rather be broken up with before cheated on, but sometimes it just doesn't work like that. When you think you know someone , the truth is that you really don't. Always be cautious.
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