Why did she cheat on me?
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Updated: May 4, 2021
zaix
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Feb 15, 2015
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Maybe she just didn't love you or maybe she was just a thot, sometimes we fall for the wrong people and don't notice it until it's too late.
Anonymous
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Sep 6, 2016
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It's her fault that she couldn't identify the better one for her. Life is better than a cheater. I am so much better than her. i deserve someone special not a cheater
perfectdisasterxx
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May 7, 2015
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I cannot tell you why she cheated but I can tell you that people do stupid things for all sorts of reasons but there is nothing wrong with you and you aren't to blame
shoulderforu
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May 17, 2015
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because u let her to.get out of the sales rack and sit where the sparkingly items are kept :) not everyone will know ur worth.but the one who does,will stay.she cheated on u because she didnt deserve u.
Anonymous
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Jun 7, 2016
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You need to speak to her if you're really worrying that she may be cheating on you. If she is, make sure to find out why and maybe you can fix it
Matchschtick
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Dec 6, 2016
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I used to believe that there always had to be a singular and perfectly reasonable cause for things. The truth is, however, that life is much more complicated. In some instances, a person feels drawn to a different person. In such an instance, no matter how bad it might feel, communication is the key to avoid cheating. In my mind talking about such things openly is the best solution.
Anonymous
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Feb 20, 2017
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Remember that no matter what, it is not your fault. It was her choice entirely and it wasn't fair for her to do that to you. It can be hard to find a reason for someone betraying your trust like that, but again, don't blame yourself.
KevinHelp
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Oct 3, 2017
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Having experienced a similar experience in the past, I think the important thing to remember is she made the decision to do wrong, not you. You may feel like it's your fault, or you did something to cause it, but ultimately, it was her choice, and in my humble opinion, cheating is never acceptable. So while you may be blaming yourself, or feeling down, remember, you still have your integrity and self, and you can find someone who will treat you better.
FlowerInDisguise19
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Apr 11, 2015
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Do you think that you may have triggered for her to do something like this? E.g. Have you had a fight recently?
Anonymous
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Apr 26, 2015
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It may be the cause of some insecurities to herself or she's just not ready to commit into a serious relationship yet.
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