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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 16, 2014
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You may never actually be over your ex, but it's always good to know that you are human and it's normal to feel this way about someone.
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Profile: georgiaamusic
georgiaamusic on Dec 15, 2014
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When you will realize that he/she wasn't the right one. When you will be able to move on and start from the beginning, do not stuck on your exs. They are you past, you have to look for your future and live for the present! You will find a lot of people like your ex! Start meeting new people, make new experiences, do things that you love and things that will make you escape and forgive about your ex. This will help you get over him/her.
Profile: delicateJewel69
delicateJewel69 on Dec 16, 2014
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When you start believing that you have a better life without him and he doesn't deserve you. Love yourself :)
Profile: SalParadise
SalParadise on Oct 31, 2017
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May not be today, may not be tomorrow, it is okay to not be over it at first, to delete or save pictures, hide or cuddle presents and feel mad or sad, forcing yourself to be alright instantly is not good for anyone. There will be times you miss him, and its okay that there are, you are not weaker or less, just a human. You shared feeling with someone and now you need to slowly re build the things in your life that used to involve another person. Take it as a chance to change and grow while you rebuild those things you want to make better to youself, things that you think would make you happy. Then one day, you will look at that box of memories, or look at that photo you saved, and realise you have re grown what you felt was missing. Give youself time and surround youself with others to care for eachother
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 22, 2014
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Being over an ex takes a while. 7COT has a self guide on getting over a break up. I read it and i feel like it is a great guide to help.
Profile: KendallNichole
KendallNichole on Jan 2, 2015
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There's not really going to be a time where you'll just wake up one day and say "oh wow i'm over him". It really just takes time! Take this time to evaluate your life, who you are, what you want, what you need, etc.! Give yourself some 'me time'
Profile: Gi
Gi on Apr 1, 2015
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It's a bit hard. But you have to be up for REALLY get over them; I mean, delete all photos of you two, all conversations, delete them from social networks. Meet new people. Sometimes we think about them because of things only we did together. Do it with other people!
Profile: ScottyZee
ScottyZee on Jun 17, 2015
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The human mind can get stuck in a thought. Sometimes one can get stuck in a thought for years. The question is not how long will I keep thinking about my ex the real question is why do I keep letting myself think about them? When one is stuck in a thought it can seem inescapable because that memory was pleasant alas to keep thinking about the past is harmful because it prevents oneself from moving on. The best thing one can do if you find yourself stuck in a thought is to break the cycle. Every time that thought comes up pre-plan another thought or activity to take ones mind off the past. For example if you cant forget an ex and they are always on your mind then do 10 push up every time you catch yourself thinking about them. Now every time they pop in your head you will soon forget because your now doing something to distract yourself, and a plus is you will be getting exercise. Also you might start associating that ex with the pain of push up if it happens enough and then there will be a lot less pleasure in those memories further helping you forget them and move on with life.
Profile: Adam
Adam on Dec 15, 2014
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There is no definitive answer. It will happen, but only when you are ready for it to. It will take time and with time comes happiness. But looking after yourself is imperative. Sleeping well and eating well is a must no matter how hard or how much you don't want to. Then once you are happy in yourself you will get past the hard times.
Profile: wallflowermusic98
wallflowermusic98 on Dec 15, 2014
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When you realize that you can't let other people govern whether you are happy or not. Let you and only you make yourself happy.
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