Skip to main content Skip to bottom nav

What's the best way to stop caring about someone who doesn't care about you ?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 30, 2015
...read more
Distract yourself do something for you, pay more attention to yourself rather than this person that you care about.
Struggling with Breakups?
Find relief with 7 Cups online therapy.
Profile: Hussy15
Hussy15 on Mar 23, 2016
...read more
Identify the reasons of why you are being so careful. What makes you go towards them. Once you know what is it that keep attracting you, You will easily understand the reasons and will be able to cope up with the exact true problem instead of a problem thats wearing a mask.
Profile: fruityIris44
fruityIris44 on Sep 22, 2015
...read more
I am presently in a situation where my soulmate stopped communication due to various misunderstandings and she disconnected. It is true that a partner may move on and want to focus on other things besides your relationship due to various factors. The reality is they cared for you in one instant and probably have remnant caring feelings for you unless you did something that was completely devastating to their soul. The best way to deal with the situation is to find ways to focus your energies on other matter - spend time with trusted friends, family, focus on hobbies that you love, meditate, etc., so you get your mind of the loss of the relationship. You don't need to stop caring for your former partner even if she doesn't care about you. But, you can get to a peaceful state by focusing your energies positively on things that matter to you.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 9, 2015
...read more
Distance yourself, write everything down to get all emotions out of your system, and see where that takes you. Try something constructive, a poem, a picture made of words, a story or even just a diary entry
Profile: bunnyg
bunnyg on Jun 5, 2016
...read more
That person is obviously a waste of space in your life. I personally would say goodbye to the person even if it will hurt me but it's for the best. then i'll do all the things that i love and care about things that matter. never stay somewhere that you're unhappy. x
Profile: msJoyce
msJoyce on Dec 27, 2015
...read more
I don't think it's completely possible to just stop caring about someone, especially if he or she is someone you had an amiable relationship with. However, one can try to care less and less over time with the acceptance that the other party is not deserving of the care you give. You are the bigger person by caring about that significant person and know that you tried your best to receive the same amount of care back. Accept it and move on.
Profile: LoneWolf1010
LoneWolf1010 on Jan 16, 2016
...read more
realization and accepting reality will give a feeling of "getting wasted" "being ignored".... if these feelings are converted into positive way of feel "do i deserve him/her?" and "y should i care? when he/she doesnt for me" that helps great...
Profile: Anaiviv01
Anaiviv01 on Apr 22, 2016
...read more
When we care about someone that doesn't care for us, it means we are putting someone else first in a dysfunctional way. The best thing we can do is to embrace ourselves wholly and learn to love our bodies, our minds, our souls. It's a path that takes time, but it's all about balancing emotions one day at the time.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 2, 2016
...read more
Learn how to respect yourself and learn that you are worthy and there would be no need for you to look for someone who is not caring for you.
Profile: energeticEyes1035
energeticEyes1035 on May 22, 2018
...read more
Stop hesitate your inner voice! The moment you doubt that someone dont care about you. Then thats the answer. Dont live up your expectation that someday they will realized or change. Be firm to yourself and stop wasting your time. But remember that we have different love language. Somehow, we express it in different way. You need to evaluate whether they really dont care about you or you just expect too much, and they get tired to satisfy your expectation.
Have a helpful insight? Don’t keep it to yourself.
Sharing helps others and its therapeutic for you.
0/150 Minimum Characters
0/75 Minimum Words