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What to do if a guy cheats on his girlfriend with you?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 9, 2016
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If you did not know, confront his girlfriend in a polite manner and try to explain to her the situation.
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Profile: Phillestertheangel
Phillestertheangel on Sep 9, 2016
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You should really talk to his girlfriend about it. It is very important to do so, she needs to low that her boyfriend isn't loyal and has cheated.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 24, 2016
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If a guy cheats on his girlfriend with you, the best thing you could do is let the girlfriend know. You would probably want to know if you were in the same situation.
Profile: ScenicVision
ScenicVision on Oct 1, 2016
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Well truthfully, if this guy cares about his girlfriend and he cheated on her with you, then the same pattern will repeat, if a guy has a history of cheating the likelihood of it reoccurring again are pretty high regardless of what he tells you, if he cheats on someone to be with you, he will cheat on you to be with somebody else!
Profile: StrawberryPudding
StrawberryPudding on Oct 1, 2016
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Well in the first place ,that shouldn't happen. Never. If he cheats on her with you,he will cheat on you with someone else. Maybe not now,but in 3,5,10 years it will happen. This is not psychology,is human behavior and you can be sure it will happen to you too. If you didn't know he had a girlfriend,then now you know. So you know what to do ,no one else can decide that for you.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 14, 2016
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I would feel horrible if I knew some guy cheated on his girlfriend with me and I would lose respect for any guy or woman who has to cheat
Profile: CandyMandie1391
CandyMandie1391 on Oct 14, 2016
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Tell him that it is wrong as soon as possible.. if he does not want to act, he have to deal with the concenquences when you tell his girlfriend about it!
Profile: EveMarshal
EveMarshal on Feb 23, 2017
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Then, the guy might do the same thing with you. If you let him in to you, then face the reality of not trusting him. Its a matter of "Trust issue" because you are aware of what and who he was. -true guys never cheats, if he loves you, then make his way first to make things right.
Profile: ingeniousPeace79
ingeniousPeace79 on Feb 25, 2017
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ask yourself few things: what do you like in a partner? would you like to be in her shoes? do you think he will do otherwise with you if he gets involved with you? do you like 1 to 1? or 1 to 2? or 1 to many? or many to many? what kind of relationship do you need? when cheating happens, it's always the time to recheck values, it's essential, to avoid greater pains in the future.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 14, 2017
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No one would like to feel to be just the second place in a man's heart. The population of the men is large and that guy that wants to cheat doesn't deserve me. He's doing love the wrong way. I won't mind his business and go away.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 20, 2017
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Don't dumpon your ex. Your relationship is over.Write a letter to yourself, laying out all your grievances, then destroy it.
Profile: beju
beju on Oct 19, 2017
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The guy should be politely made to feel that what he is doing is not adding to his positive image. He should be made to realize that integrity gives positive self respect.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 10, 2018
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Talk to him about it. Your answers come from you and him not him and his girlfriend. Even though it may mean nothing for the two of you in the future ask yourself if it’s right and maybe find out more about the relationship he is in.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 31, 2018
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Well, know that he didn't deserve you. Your way better then they will ever will. There will be another guy who will care for you.
Profile: CreateYourOwnLife
CreateYourOwnLife on Jan 31, 2018
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You should consider whether you can agree with your conscience and feel good about it. Also about what you actually want and what it all brings in the long term in terms of good and bad consequences.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 3, 2018
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Be honest & take responsibility for your actions (he needs to take responsibility for his actions). Ask yourself, do you want to be the girl on the side or do you want someone who will make you his main priority?
Profile: stella1013
stella1013 on Feb 7, 2018
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first of all, you should know that it is wrong to cheat, and try standing in his girlfriend's shoes; ie how betrayed and hurt she must feel if she was to find out. then the right thing to do is to confront his girlfriend and tell her exactly what happened and let them work their relationship out on their own. next, if he happens to leave his girlfriend for you, then you'll have to ask yourself whether you should be with a guy who has cheated in a relationship, especially since it's recent. if he's willing to cheat on his girlfriend with you, there is a good chance that he will do the same thing to you, if you were to be together.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 8, 2018
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Express how you feel in a professional way to the guy on how that doing that was not okay. Being willing to explain what happened to the girlfriend.
Profile: PrettyCupcake00
PrettyCupcake00 on Mar 1, 2018
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Hey love! Please don't trust that guy because he'll definitely cheat you with other girl. the best will be to go save the girl whom he is cheating from a heartbreak.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 27, 2018
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The right thing is to confront the guy and tell him he needs to tell his girlfriend. If he chooses not to although it is not your place you need to try and put yourself in her position and think about what you would want
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