What do I do if I love 2 people at once?

If you would have really love the first one, there wouldn't be place or time in your heart and mind for the second one!

Is there really enough room in your heart to love 2 people at once? Perhaps if you ponder long enough you might find that there is one you love more.

You can love 2 or more than 2 people at once. It is absolutely okay. Love is not something that can be divided. Imagine a mother having 2 kids and a husband- don't you think she loves 3 people at the same time as well? But yes, if you are talking in terms of a romantic relationship, then yes- it often happens that we can miss two people at once. To be honest, I don't know what it means even though I have felt the same sometimes. It can be confusion, it can be unresolved conflicts or emotions, it could be lack of closure or anything. But what I do know is that it is very important to sort out our own feelings and understand what we really want and who we really wish to be with, because we alone know ourselves the best. But the most important thing of them all is to know ourselves and learn to love ourselves first :)

There is no limit to how much love a person can carry in himself, only how to express it appropriately. That's up to you. Being honest with your various loved ones about their mutual involvement in your life if critical. If you are hiding or lying to one or more, that isn't love.

Breaking one heart is enough for breaking two hearts at once. Personally I do not believe that a person can love two people at once. A relationship should be between two people not between two people one day and then two people another day. You should sort out your feelings and realize that being greedy in a relationship does not take you far

I feel there is some truth to the statement "if you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second." But when you're in the situation, it can still feel like a huge life decision. I think you should evaluate what it is about each person that makes you love them, and what flaws you dislike about them. Then weigh out which of those lists are better suited for your lifestyle, personal goals and future plans. It's not always about the butterflies, we must also think practically when it comes to choosing a partner.

If both are drowning and don't know how to swim, whom you will save? It can reflect whom you love more over other. Secondly, if you would love one at first place, then you wouldn't be falling for second. You can't love two people with same intensity simultaneously.

I make a toss. Person A is head and person B is tails. When I toss the coin, I'll either hope for heads or tails, and that way I'll know.

Follow your heart. That is the most helpful thing. You may even be polyamorous, and that is completely okay as long as everyone involved knows of the situation c:

Choose the one you can't really live without! The one that helps you become a better person and the one you could see a future with.