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What do I do if I love 2 people at once?

Profile: Chinmay96
Chinmay96 on Sep 15, 2016
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I need to think over it, ask myself questions and give times for observing things around me. Love is not always as we tell ourself that we are in love or we truly love someone, most of the time, it can be infatuation or we are just confused with some feelings, whatever it is we need to give time and understand those feelings before labeling them as love! :)
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Profile: Hoperay97
Hoperay97 on Sep 23, 2016
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Well, If day go for the second one because you wouldn't have fallen in love with the second one of you still loved the first one... I hope this helped though ^^ If not, you can always come to me to talk of you need to :)
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Anonymous on Sep 30, 2016
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"if you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second.”
Profile: 1Justlikeyou
1Justlikeyou on Oct 1, 2016
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Are you sure that you love both of them? Maybe you have to find out that.Other way keep loving them.Love won't hurt anyone
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 19, 2016
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You can love multiple people, dozens, but you can only be in love with one person, you will have to decide who makes you a better person, makes you happier, they'll be the reason you smile, you will know who it is. And it's best to make the decision soon, you can't be with two people at once, and the person whom you don't pick, you don't want to lead them on.
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Well, I used to think I loved 2 people at once, but I realized that it was only what I thought. But then I noticed something; every time I was thinking about them at the same time, and when I was comparing them, one was the first to remember, and the other one was the second to remember. Even now when I'm writting this, I'm imagining like that. #1 was more important for me. The first that crosses my mind when I say "one". Easy.
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Anonymous on Oct 23, 2016
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Just think about the consequences. Know what you want and make the best choice. Just be sure to decide before its too late.
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Anonymous on Oct 30, 2016
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It's a difficult predicament to be in, all you can do is try to sort through your feelings to decide if you feel differently about one than the other
Profile: purpleRaven76
purpleRaven76 on Jan 22, 2017
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Can you tell them both about each other, and express your love for both openly? If so, tell them. If you find you can't be open about your loving nature, loving more than one (polyamory) might not be for you. Or, if the two people don't want to be involved knowing that you love another, respecting their wishes is also an act of love.
Profile: BlissfulSummer
BlissfulSummer on Feb 12, 2017
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It does happen that you start liking 2 people at once. It's best to take some time and not rush into things. Taking some time and sorting out feelings, then let them know cause stringing them along cause you are confused isn't fair to them as well. Even though one might be afraid of loosing them , talking to them can be the best option as well because miscommunications can be the cause of greater problems.
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