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What can I talk about with my boyfriend on the phone?

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Anonymous on Sep 11, 2020
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Talking with your boyfriend on the phone can be a struggling issue sometimes. I myself a male would like to answer this. We love talking about what we like to do, If we like to fish talk about fishing. Talking about something like that will make him like you more and build trust and a good friendship with him. Guys just love talking about themselves. Plan for what you guys are gonna do on your next date. Think of good restaurants you guys can go to for a date. Simple things like that are key to talking to a guy on the phone. Hope this helps :)
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 26, 2020
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Hey! Glad you've asked that question! Here are a few things you could talk to your boyfriend about on the phone: 1. Get Into A Healthy Debate. 3. Ask About His Day. 2. Make Plans For The Future. 3. Play The Question Game. 4. Tell Each Other Exactly How You Feel. 5. Share Random Thoughts. 6. Talk about books or movies 7. talk about your day Hope this helped! 10.
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SchmellyAshley on Nov 27, 2020
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Think of the things that makes not just you, but you and your boyfriend happy. Talk about your similarities or your interests like hobbies. If he gets bored and tries to change the topic, don't make a fuss about it. If he doesn't show interest in your topic, then let him talk about anything. Don't be angry because this is an opportunity for both of you to get to know each other. Listen attentively to what he says and show the interest in your voice. Be sure to make him comfortable when you talk to each other. Meaning, make him feel like you're fine with the topic and you're listening carefully. Listening isn't an option. He might interview you about what you heard and remembered from your conversation. If you're getting annoyed with what he keeps on talking about, feel free to say no because if he really loves you, he'll let you do so. Calmly apologize that you have to do something.
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10311996 on Dec 3, 2020
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At times, as corny as a list of questions may sound, they can be your perfect solution to a dry spell of conversations. Even if both of you have emailed each other the answers, you can remember a few of his shocking or hilarious answers and talk about it when both of you meet each other. Random bits of gossip and news are always great things to talk about. At the beginning of a new relationship, everything’s new and fascinating because both of you are trying to know more about each other’s lives. The best way to get to know him better is by talking about his day, every day. When both of you know about each other’s lives, you’ll feel more connected to each other.
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tearainandwarmblankets on Jan 15, 2021
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Try to connect based on mututal interests and if not ask them to talk about something they are interested in talking about - whether that be sports or philosophy. Perhaps try listening to a podcast and chatting about that, or discussing a tv show you both watch and let the conversation flow from there. Sometimes it is nice to be talking but also doing your own thing (e.g. if you're both studying make a call) and then it feels more natural since if you were hanging out you wouldn't be expected to be just speaking the entire time. Hope this helps.
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Anonymous on Feb 28, 2021
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Basically the same stuff you talk about in person. But one thing we need to know is that you don't necessarily have to talk to him every single minute of every day, so if you have something to talk about then you bring it up but don't stress too much on what you need to talk about. You're together because you have ground interests apart from the fact that you like each other so don't think too much and just flow with your common interests. When you stress too much about what to talk about you end up beating yourself up about nothing when you can freely talk to him about stuff you both find fascinating.
Profile: CassD
CassD on Mar 31, 2021
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You can talk about a lot of things. Talk about the future, your guys' days, movie interest, hobbies, hopes, fears, and dreams, funny childhood memories or stories. You can talk about games you like to play, and even play those games. Talk about sports or movies. You guys can even talk about books you both like to read and if you like the same books perhaps you can find some to start reading together. Then you will for sure have stuff to talk about because you would be able to talk about the book every few chapters or even everyday.
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BlueOasis420 on Apr 7, 2021
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Finding topics can be difficult, I understand. But if it's your boyfriend, you sure have many in common! Do you have similar interests or the same friends or go to the same school? You can also talk about what happened lately. Sure, in Corona times you can't go to the cinema, but maybe you just made a nice Easter celebration or did talk to an old friend from yours. If you're really unsure, make a list. What you really want to talk about and back-up topics. You normally switch from one topic to the other without really noticing, because you're really in the flow of talking when you have found a nice topic. If not and there's silence, you can use ur backup topics. If there's really nothing to talk anymore, just schedule the next time you want to talk to him and hang up. You sure find some topics you'll both love to talk about. Conversations are easy when they are started well. I'm sure you'll do a great job! Have a nice day
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Anonymous on Aug 15, 2021
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You can discuss his day/week with him, ask him about his interests/hobbies he has recently been spending time on, ask how his parents/pets are, ask him about work or you can ask him if he has accomplished anything recently that he wanted to. If you want to talk about more personal things then you can ask him how he has been recently, ask him about how he has maybe been coping with work stress or family problems. You can go as far as to discuss your relationship or future to make sure you both are on the same page. Don't be afraid to have serious or personal conversations
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Anonymous on Aug 21, 2015
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You can talk about anything that you are comfortable with discussing. Friends, family, hobbies, future goals.
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