What can I talk about with my boyfriend on the phone?

I completely understand being apprehensive about talking on the phone with someone. It's a lot of pressure! When I had a boyfriend, my favorite thing to talk about was asking him deep questions. Some times you have more courage over the phone to ask the burning questions you have.

You can speak about how your days went and even make future plans. Another idea is asking him questions so you can get to him even more if the relationship is still new

ask him how was his day? about his work? ask him about his health , tell him that you were thinking about him(that will make him smile). ask him if he had food? and main thing.....ask him if he is free.DO NOT DISTRUB him wen in work or up busy with things

anything but not about family, your personal life, your status, where are you and the most important is ...if he ask you weather you are alone or not just ignore it

If your relationship is fairly new, ask him things about himself. If not, then just ask about his day, what he did etc. it can be literally anything. I think in a relationship all your partner wants to do is hear your voice and speak to you, it doesn't matter what about. Tell him about a film you watched recently, tell him about something new you learned recently - anything! Of course, he needs to make some effort, too. It's hard to keep a conversation going when the effort is only one-sided.

If you don't have anything to talk about you don't have to call them up. A relationship doesn't constitute constant calling unless you both feel like doing it.

I usually talk to him about things that are personal that way we are more open and comfortable with each other

How your day went? When you want to hang out next, just joke with eachother and relax. Tell eachother little stories. It shouldn't be awkward, make it fun!

I've found that having a regular conversation that you would have with your partner in the living room or at a restaurant works fine. Talk about how the day went, new exciting things that happened to you, trips you could take together.. What's for dinner! You can also talk intimately with your partner on the phone. This could be romantic things (sweet nothings, as they say) or something totally different like reading the same book over the phone, which is especially good if your partner is away for a while. Don't forget to skype/FaceTime/video chat with your sweetie, too. Having the face to face contact in addition to the conversation can make it seem like you guys are right in the room together. Plus, with video chat, you have the added bonus of showing as well as telling! Finally, I'd say relax and don't worry about what to talk about. The conversation will flow and take on different tones and topics. Be okay with those awkward pauses, they're normal! Use them as a moment to regroup or think up something else to say that will engage your partner. Good luck!

Gooday Do either of you have preferences on what to talk about on the phone?.. maybe you do have an open and honest conversation about phone conversation topics and preferences with your boy friend.