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Spying on ex's social media - since my breakup I can't stop from monitoring. Is that okay?

Profile: wonderousSunshine52
wonderousSunshine52 on Nov 5, 2014
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no its not its a bit creepy honestly leave him/her be unless your contacting them for a sincere apology
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Profile: Fredrik
Fredrik on Nov 9, 2014
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It's fully normal, it sure is. We crave what we once had, it's like a drug. But it's not good or healthy for you. You need to move on. I broke up with my ex 2 months ago and I've been doing amazingly, I really have. But I accidentally stumbled upon her facebook page today and it sucked actually. So try to summon your strength and move on
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 9, 2014
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I think this might not be beneficial to you. By keeping up to date on their life, you are making more difficult for yourself to move on.
Profile: Janz4528
Janz4528 on Nov 10, 2014
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No, you should not be monitoring your ex parter. You should continue your life, you are not together for a reason, you need to remember that.
Profile: LolitaHayes
LolitaHayes on Nov 12, 2014
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Spying on an ex will potentially lead to dragging out the pain of the breakup. Focus on you instead!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 13, 2014
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i had it done to me, every move i made my ex made me feel so uncomfortable, so i dont think it is okay
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Anonymous on Nov 18, 2014
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i dont think that is a good thing to do. if you think that your ex is doing something you dont like then tell him
Profile: Uniqueg
Uniqueg on Nov 18, 2014
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It's totally normal to want to know what your ex is up to, with time you'll monitor your ex less and less, it's apart of the break up process don't worry
Profile: RelaxingRainfall25
RelaxingRainfall25 on Apr 11, 2015
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Breakups can be difficult to manage with, instead of monitoring his Facebook, which would sometimes make the situation worse, you can attempt to make a real conversation.
Profile: Smrtbibliophile
Smrtbibliophile on Apr 15, 2015
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While I think it's OK, I think it's really helpful. I've done it for sure, but it's hard to get over someone when you're constantly checking on them. I think it's best to try to distract yourself in order to move on.
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