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Spying on ex's social media - since my breakup I can't stop from monitoring. Is that okay?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 11, 2015
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I think it is . But to be honest you must still love your ex. Do not feel guality about that it will pass.
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Anonymous on Aug 17, 2015
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spying on ex's social does not affect any one else just you make you truly Hurted it will make u tierd psychologically and physically, such as that opens up old wounds again, this will make you forget to make yourself better and stronger, it will make you always live in remembrance of past .. and u Deserve to be Happy and cheerful person , dont lose the hope :)
Profile: Peacefulmeditation
Peacefulmeditation on Aug 21, 2015
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Typically its not a healthy habit to continue digging into someone else's life. Feelings of depression can quickly set in when you see that they have moved on.
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PoliteOcean on Aug 25, 2015
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Its really not ok not to mention an invasion of privacy that may or may not be against a law. You should put yourself in their shoes and ask yourself if you would want to be treated that way and how you would feel if someone did that to you.
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Anonymous on Aug 26, 2015
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no that is not an okay thing to do, you have to let go and realize that you have to let go and let things be, and spying on people is not a good thing.
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DontFenceMeIn on Sep 14, 2015
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Everybody gets a bit curious. Have they changed their status? Have they deleted the pictures they have with me? It's completely normal. When I broke up with my boyfriend, I was spying on his accounts for about 3 days, but then I just let it go. It'll be a process, but letting go of spying will also help you let go him.
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Anonymous on Sep 17, 2015
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Yes that is okay, it is normal. Everyone probably does that because you are use to knowing what they are doing all the time. You will quit over time.
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Anonymous on Oct 25, 2015
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It's normal for me because you still have feelings but be sure that you will stop doing that eventually and start to let go of things that can't stay.
Profile: zaix
zaix on Oct 25, 2015
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it's not okay to be obsessed which is basically what you are. you should try to move on because that's what is best for you.
Profile: JakeSGH
JakeSGH on Jun 6, 2017
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First off, this isn't healthy even as a coping mechanism, but if you feel as if you can't change it at all, then at least try to browse healthily. Search for their happiness and be happy for them if they're happy!
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