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Spying on ex's social media - since my breakup I can't stop from monitoring. Is that okay?

Profile: Angellienabilla
Angellienabilla on Dec 19, 2015
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It's totally okay, I can feel you, but it's unhealthy. It makes you further from moving on. Have a good day!
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Profile: Lyssaamariee
Lyssaamariee on Dec 19, 2015
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That is perfectly fine. It is normal. When you are dating someone that you knew what everything Is going on in his/her life then to not knowing at all. It's just cause you care about there wellbeing
Profile: Heretohelp999
Heretohelp999 on Dec 19, 2015
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I 100% know how your feeling! When me and my ex boyfriend broke up it was all i did.. Sometimes i still do! I think it's perfectly normal as your not over that person yet!
Profile: MarkoP
MarkoP on Dec 19, 2015
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If you have feelings you need sorting out, then perhaps it is the best you do that. Perhaps your relationship ended abruptly, you need to acknowledge your actions and trust that everything will turn out for the best in the future. For you and for your partner.
Profile: GroovySoul
GroovySoul on Dec 19, 2015
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It's okay to a certain point, but in the end, all your doing is hurting yourself. I suggest blocking your ex.
Profile: kaz982
kaz982 on Dec 20, 2015
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You need to focus on moving on. Monitoring them won't help you move forward if your focus is them. You should focus on yourself.
Profile: Prosperkitty
Prosperkitty on Dec 20, 2015
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It's not exactly healthy to be spying on your ex. You need to distract yourself from him/her with different activities. Sooner or later, you do move on! :)
Profile: ivoryField1014
ivoryField1014 on Dec 21, 2015
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It's normal to be curious about your ex. You may wonder what he/her is up to, has he met someone new, and so on. In the end, it's not that good to check up on him/her. When you see pictures of your ex it can bring back both memories and feelings, expecially if the break up is fresh. I would recommend not to check up on your ex, at least not for a while. It's your ex for a reason, and checking up on him/her too often it's not good for you. You need to focus on yourself right now, and not stress over someone who's not in your life anymore.
Profile: giggleEnergy41
giggleEnergy41 on Dec 23, 2015
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It is normal to do this, but it won't help you move on. Eventually you should block yourself from viewing his profiles. It may be hard at first, but you will benefit from it in the long run.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 23, 2015
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The only thing coming up from monitoring your ex is: hurting your self and staying on that stucked situation! You should give more credit to your self and continue your life....or you could just try to "face" your ex if you think it could work again than monitoring him!
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