Should I go back to him/her?
Anonymous
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May 15, 2017
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If the relationship was healthy, and you have serious regrets about the breakup. Take time to think about why the relationship ended in the first place, and if a second go at it would only result in the same outcome. Make your decision after you've applied serious thought into your future, and the past you share with your ex.
hugsandtea
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Jun 3, 2017
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This is a kind of question where another's answer doesn't matter. This is your choice and your decision. If you were to ask this question to me though, I would ask if he/she has hurt you in the past and why you would consider going back to him/her. For starters, it's wise to list the pros and cons of the person and what your heart is saying to you. Will it hurt you more if you go back to him/her? But this is something you should decide, not others. Follow your gut.
Anonymous
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Jun 11, 2017
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you should go back to him/her only if they are treating you with love and respect , if the feelings are mutual and you can't be without them stay together .
kindCandy42
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Jul 7, 2017
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It does depend on what happen between you first time to split up. What was the reason why you left each other and what you did not like about them.
Anonymous
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Jul 9, 2017
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If you really love them and want to be with them, then yes. If things didn't work the first time, doesn't mean they won't a second. Who knows, it could be a way better relationship the second time around.
ASilentObserver
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Jul 13, 2017
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It's your choice.
Ask yourself, you really want it? And, will s(he) appreciate it?
Because you're in the best place to know why you should go back to him/her.
If you feel you should, then Yes else No.
So, it's your call.
Just do what seems better to you.
Ruek
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Aug 9, 2017
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This is something that only you can decide. There are many ways you can go about it. You can write a list of pros and cons, you can follow your gut feeling. Just don't feel pressured to make a decision right away. Take as much time as you need to make up your mind.
zealousSnowflake39
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Aug 11, 2017
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Time heals all wounds, right? Maybe all you two needed was some time apart to do some soul searching. Or, it could be that you are both more mature after some time went by
Marissa2163
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Aug 12, 2017
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Dependent upon why you guys split apart in the first place. If they lied/cheated or did something to break your trust, you must think very hard about how long and what they would need to do in order to gain your trust back, and talking to them about your feelings helps you realize if you really want to get back together or if you just may feel guilty for leaving.
OliveGrace
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Oct 19, 2017
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Does this person make you happy? Or are you just missing the thought of them that you had in your head? Sometimes the thought of someone is better than the reality of being with them. You tend to fixate on the positive parts of the relationship, but remind yourself of the negative. Remind yourself of those times when you felt like you needed to leave, you wanted to leave. Why was that? Yes, you might feel empty now, but are they doing anything to keep you from feeling empty? Are they putting in an effort to show you they miss you? Is it worth it - or are you just infatuated with the idea of them?
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