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It depends of on the circumstances. If it was a really bad relationship then no, if it was a petty argument and you think you can resolve it then go for it. Do what makes you happy
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Profile: heartfulPower23
heartfulPower23 on Aug 3, 2018
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if you cant live wothout him/her and they also feels the same way if it is good for then go back unlesss learn to accept the reality that they are not a part of your life anymore so explore os that person was roght is going back to them will be good or bad !
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Anonymous on Aug 11, 2018
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Yes and no! Ask yourself, do you really want it? Think about what happened and what can happen if you go back. If you think s/he is worth it, then give it another chance. If you think it'll not make you or them happy in the long run, then control yourself. It is difficult, but not impossible.
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Anonymous on Aug 11, 2018
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Going back to someone is all up to your gut feeling or personal choice. If they have terrible hurt you or treated you unworthy, then find someone who will treat you for who you are. But maybe if it was only a small slip up or you are very much missing him/her then give your love another shot. Never hurts to try.
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brickermads on Oct 3, 2018
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If they truly made you happy, then yes. But if they hurt you emotionally or physically and that is why you left them, NO. Please save yourself the pain of going back. I promise it will be better that way. But, everything happens for a reason. There is a reason you saw this post. There is a reason you left them. If you believe that things will be better if you are with them then go back! It truly depends on your situation. You deserve the best kind of love out there. And if they didn't give you that to begin with, they don't deserve you!
Profile: SmileySinful
SmileySinful on Oct 10, 2018
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Firstly, think to yourself why you broke up with them in the first place. Ask yourself these 5 questions and then make your decision if you should get back with them or not! 1. Were you happy? 2.Can you see a future with them? 3. Did you smile and laugh everyday when you were with them? 4. Did they make you feel confident? 5. Did you feel safe with them? If you answered no to any of these questions, then you really need to think carefully about what you want and who you think you need in your life. We all need positivity and happiness and you're too precious to let any negativity come into your life by choice!
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Anonymous on Oct 10, 2018
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This is a personal preference. I personally have gone back to ex partners, and sometimes I've ended up regretting it, others I haven't. At the end of the day you need to consider why it ended in the first place, and whether or not it's worth going back to. You need to consider the pros and cons and think about your mental wellbeing, and question if it's worth it. Ask people for advice if you need to. But remember in the end its your decision. It might be worth easing into it, like a fresh start if you do get back together. You don't want to rush into it and pick up where you left off as such. Because it probably wont end well.
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GEMINIALDRIDGE8D on Oct 13, 2018
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It depends entirely on why things ended in the first place. If your relationship was toxic, NO! If you were abused mentally or physically, if he made you feel negative about yourself, controlled you, showed other negative traits or if you were unhappy in your relationship and with him you should not. However, if he does make you happy and treats you well, and if you still care for him/her and they do you, I don’t see why you shouldn’t. The opinions of family and friends shouldn’t matter as much as your happiness and well being. Your safety with him/her, happiness and what was right and wrong with your relationship previously should determine whether you should go back to him/her or not.
Profile: MarissaMc
MarissaMc on Nov 11, 2018
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Chances are the answer to this question is always no. Relationships, when they fail, fail for a reason and so as long as whatever the factor was that caused them to fail is still around, for example, does he still see women as inferior or does she still have hormonal problems that need to be sorted through, the chances of that same relationship succeeding are very slim. For someone who is set on returning to a past love, just keep in mind why you broke up in the first place and really try to beef up the level of communication, just to give yourself the best fighting shot.
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Anonymous on Dec 13, 2018
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From personal experience, going back to a partner is never the same. There is a reason that things didn’t work out, and ultimately you need to focus on your own mental health and well-being within all of this too. If the relationship made you unhappy, then remember to tell yourself that you are deserving of so much more than that. There are so many people out there that will appreciate you and who you are once they get to know you. Just remind yourself to give it time, especially if the breakup has been recent, and take the time to focus on yourself for a little while.
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